it's been a while since i visited these forums, or even dressed at all actually. but thats mainly due to being in college and with roommates i dont exactly feel safe having those things in my room (there are many, many pranks that involve everything being moved into my closet or something haha). anyway, back to my point. the urge is still there, mainly underwear, and i've been considering telling my first female friend. this girl is basically a sister to me, and there probably isnt anything (bar this subject) that we have not discussed. i feel like i could trust her with it, but i'm still wary as it will be the first and only person that knows about this. i guess i'm more of asking for advice on how to read if it's a good time or idea to bring this up to her, or in a manner it should be done. anything really, i'm in the dark on this one! thanks for any help.