Originally Posted by
great gg
Well, it kind of depends on whether the son in law is going to remain a son in law or suddenly tell my daughter that he is a she. then i would have a daughter in law. you are right in the fact that they don't lose a male, but they lose the illlusion that the male gave them whhen they first married, if the male did not disclose those proclivities. so , dont' tell me you would feel enhanced if your female so suddently decided that she was ftm after 20 + years of marriage and wanted you to love her and let her make love to yous though she were the male. My point is taht loss is loss is loss. andnot to accept that the loss of an illusion is painful is bull***. I happen to be a 100% supportive of my so, but he/she was totally open and understaneding on how hard it was for me to suddenly accept him as a cd after 26 years of marriage. that has made all the difference.