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    End of the year long story

    Well girls, wife has asked for a divorce. She has decided that I can't be permanently converted, and she is tired of trying. I am surviving so far.

    Thank you thank you thank you to all of you who kept in touch this year and helped me to keep my sanity through this. Hopefully I will be back now on some regular basis to enjoy the fellowship.

    Emily Ann

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Ann Brown View Post
    Well girls, wife has asked for a divorce. She has decided that I can't be permanently converted, and she is tired of trying. I am surviving so far.

    Thank you thank you thank you to all of you who kept in touch this year and helped me to keep my sanity through this. Hopefully I will be back now on some regular basis to enjoy the fellowship.

    Emily Ann
    I am so sorry you have a lot of support here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Ann Brown View Post
    Well girls, wife has asked for a divorce. She has decided that I can't be permanently converted, and she is tired of trying. I am surviving so far.

    Thank you thank you thank you to all of you who kept in touch this year and helped me to keep my sanity through this. Hopefully I will be back now on some regular basis to enjoy the fellowship.

    Emily Ann


    she must have tried to convert you too her life style, she is the one losing out, hope you get to keep all of Emily and get on with your life, who knows whats ahead but life goes on, keep the faith and let us hear more from you, a newbe to this Love Charolette

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    Hi Emily..

    I am really sorry...I know that you have a heart of gold, and I hope that the saying "behind every cloud there is a silver lining" will apply to you. Love you girl
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    Well you tried and we all know, cd'ing is not something you can just give up I'm so sorry it has come to this for you. Just know, we are all here for you and will support you every step of the way
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    Sorry to hear this, hope this helps a bit.
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    Emily Ann -- I'm so sorry to hear about your problems. I'm sure things will work out for the best in the long run. In the meantime, we'll all be here for you.
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    Sorry to get this news you know we are here for you
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    Oh Emily, my heart is so heavy, hearing you sad news. While it is a huge loss, it also marks a new beginning for you. I wish you all the best going forward, and will keep you and your family in my prayers. Tammi
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    Thanks girls ! Don't be sad for me though, at least I am not living every moment waiting for another nuclear explosion.

    Through this year I have had to endure hundreds of crossdresser son telephone commercials, Eddie Izzard Special announcements, Trans America and Kinky Boots movie stuff, crossdresser jokes on television, and tons of other stuff which brought her wrath down on my head when it appeared. I have been yelled at for touching her pocketbook when trying to be nice and pass it to her across a table, bombed for having a pink oxford shirt in my closet, and for walking too slowly past the WalMart women's department.

    What's that sound I hear? Why, it's the sound of QUIET.

    Emily Ann

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Ann Brown View Post
    Thanks girls ! Don't be sad for me though, at least I am not living every moment waiting for another nuclear explosion.

    Through this year I have had to endure hundreds of crossdresser son telephone commercials, Eddie Izzard Special announcements, Trans America and Kinky Boots movie stuff, crossdresser jokes on television, and tons of other stuff which brought her wrath down on my head when it appeared. I have been yelled at for touching her pocketbook when trying to be nice and pass it to her across a table, bombed for having a pink oxford shirt in my closet, and for walking too slowly past the WalMart women's department.

    What's that sound I hear? Why, it's the sound of QUIET.

    Emily Ann

    at least youll be able to sleep with out any nagging ,probly first time in years
    cheer up just look at all the time you will have to follow your heart and panties Love Charolette

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    It is always sad to part with the past... but sometimes the future can be just a bit exciting. Hope you build a new adventure.

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    Very sorry, Emily-

    Get Zeb Wanderers book- "Letting Go"- was a great help when I went through divorce. Cannot recommend too strongly.

    Hugs,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Ann Brown View Post
    Thanks girls ! Don't be sad for me though, at least I am not living every moment waiting for another nuclear explosion.

    Through this year I have had to endure hundreds of crossdresser son telephone commercials, Eddie Izzard Special announcements, Trans America and Kinky Boots movie stuff, crossdresser jokes on television, and tons of other stuff which brought her wrath down on my head when it appeared. I have been yelled at for touching her pocketbook when trying to be nice and pass it to her across a table, bombed for having a pink oxford shirt in my closet, and for walking too slowly past the WalMart women's department.

    What's that sound I hear? Why, it's the sound of QUIET.

    Emily Ann
    That's the spirit. Seriously, nobel effort on trying to make it work but IMHO you are so much better off. I'm sorry for leveling judgement against her, but anyone that would turn Trans America into club to beat you over the head instead of seeing it for the touching story it is, ... well, that's just plain wrong.

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    It's a sad thing to hear of a break up from anyone and I feel saddened for you ,but like you say you have the quiet. But don't dwell on it. Be strong and try to make the best and enjoy the extra dress time that you get. Hopfullyyou will meat someone else eventuality that will be love you for you and cope with your dressing.

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    hi Hun
    i am so sorry that it has come to this. i hope you both split on very good terms.. and that your life will be enrich now you can be free to be who you are. and i hope you find the special someone to enjoy your life..
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    Sorry did not mean to be curt

    I said what I said in a light hearted mannewr and did not mean to imply that I did not feel your pain. I hope that your future is filled with all the joy and happiness you deserve.

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    I'm so sorry Emily.
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    I'm sorry to hear. When one door closes, another opens. You have my support. My only suggestion is to retain good legal counsel so that your rights are protected. Upset and grief over the divorce can lead to some very bad decisions if you do it yourself.

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    Emily, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope it isn't a mean divorce but you never know. Good luck.
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    Good luck with all that is to come. Will be thinking about you.
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    I have the greatest empathy for you. And wish you well for the future.

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    Friday update

    Wife sweetly informed me grown kids were pestering her for divorce answers and if I didn't tell them....well.....anyhow, better from me than her so, the kids now know about my gender issue. Wonder where this saga will go next?

    Emily Ann

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    They say time heals everything, I went through a divorced because of my crossdressing. No kids were involved but the ex-wife called everybody up on my side of the family and let them know what I was dressing in woman's clothes and in her mind I was gay.
    She forgot to mention about the affair she was having for over an year and why I couldn't' pay my bills.
    Took a long time to be able to face my sisters and mother and to this day I still live over hundred miles from them.
    One of the neighborhood friends that I grew up with committed murder suicide and from that day forward why I got divorced didn't seem like a bad deal to my family.
    To them I may be strange in some way but I don't do drugs, have at times drank way too much but if I feel I a need a drink whatever is bothering me, it will still be there tomorrow.
    Just accept yourself and be yourself they will come around.
    Sorry just got carried away.

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