Do you SO's wish it would go away?

[Tamara Croft]

Me?? no way I have the best of both worlds It's not always a bed of roses, but I have a safe life, my children are safe, they have a loving dad, not one that is an abusive a-hole.... a drunk..... etc... I'm lucky to have Tammy.

[Danielle2]

My wife would not only push the button, she would jump up and down on it just to make sure. Even then she would not believe it worked. I AM QUIT SURE IT WOULD NOT WORK!

Danielle2

[AprilMae]

I'm sure some wish their SO's would go away......

[paulaN]

Oh Ya my wife would push the button and in a real hurry too. As for me, it's only been a few years that I have learned to accept myself as I am. I wish there was no need for the button in the first place.

[Michellebej]

Mine (ex) decided one day to start a new life. She went into NA and got a new religion, a new family and a new Boyfriend ( we were married at the time). She decided that she was done with the CDing thing. The Role Reversal thing. And; expressing her inner feelings vicariously through me durring role play.

Now she is married to the guy she left me for and is absolutely miserable. He is soooooooo straight laced it isn't even funny. He thinks foreplay is turning off the lights......

That was 10 years ago. I am sure that if there was such a button that she would be trying some way to rewire it!! LOL

Love

Michelle

[Stacy GG]

I would absolutely not push that button! elly was sooo miserable before she came out I couldn't imagine making her go back to being a "guy". I'm much happier as well, and as the other accepting GG's have said it wouldn't be the same person if you made the CD part "go away".

[Calliope]

I am sure that if there was such a button that she would be trying some way to rewire it!!

[Big smile.] Whew - that line totally made my day.

[Kristen Kelly]

This really shocks me, but no I wouldn't push the go away & never return button. I would like to have a pause, rewind & resume feature. "See that, don't do that again..... WTF was that?" OK, resume.

[SIZE="3"]There are times I would love those controls, on life. I have said dozen of times in the last year "If I only knew 30 years ago what I know now my life would not have been riddled with guilt" [/SIZE]

[donna h]

My wife woukd surely press it, probably a few times to be sure it worked. We had some good conversations about dressing months ago and agreed on some things together. Then she failed to live up to some of her own suggestions, which led to a complete communication breakdown. Maybe its better that way. But she would press the button quickly and repeatedly.

[Jenn2716]

Part of me says she would, and another part says she wouldn't. In all honesty, I think it would totally depend on the situation or what was going on with us at the time she was presented with the button.

[JennaKnots]

makes me sad, but we do plan to see my therapist together again after the new baby is born. at least she's willing to try.

[sheena]

I hope at this point she would think hard about hitting that button. She would like for it to just all go away but on the other hand she has seen how much it's me.

[lisa92268]

Mine would push the button in a snap!

[kittypw GG]

I would absolutly push the button but I too would like the undo button. I would undo it maybe two or three times a year. Anyway I would not have to deal with it daily would be a God send. It is not so much about the cd'ing but its the unrealistic expectations and unbalance in a lot of cd's lives that I hate. AND THE VANITY OMG THE VANITY. I could really do without that. Maybe the button would have an option button instead of getting rid of the cding you could add quality characteristics like patients, balance, realistic priorities and acceptance of your man side. Male/female should be equally nurtured. Kitty

[Ronda_B]

My wife would press the button in a heart beat....She hates the compatiton.

[Janailene]

Inspite of knowing Janice for 5 decades, she would push that button so fast your head would spin. Recently I've had a medical problem and the result is Janice has come back into our lives. She has realised that I am partially female and seems more open to Janice. But she would still push the button.

[KimberlyS]

Yes, my wife would push the button. But she may hesitate and ask if I would be keeping my many feminine attributes and characteristics and just the dressing would go away. She likes the fact that I can bounce between outside manly things and inside womanly things and help around the house. She would be ok with my cding if it were not for the clothes.

KimberlyS - CD

[Eva Marie]

Well, Staycee, you asked. Hope you're not disillusioned with the response; it's quite interesting.

For my answer, my wife was a perpetrator involved in getting me started in this in the first place. It all happened at "Burning Man" (www.burningman.com) several years ago. Prior to that I can honestly say the idea of crossdressing never consciously occurred to me. Now she helps me shop, etc., but everything has to be kept in proper perspective (her's) regarding the when's and where's.

Push the button? Probably, yes; but then probably want to change her mind (naturally) and undo the action. How do we win?

[Tiana]

my wife 'accepts' my cding but wished i did not have the need to do it so she would press that button x

[Bluebird GG]

for me Teriann's dressing is just part of the landscape i see it as a everyday thing, i always ask her are u getting dressed tonite its like a everyday question in fact if i dont help her with photo shoots and makeup and shopping it gets hum drum too me so i have to keep it exciting for me and her, so i guess the answer to your question is i have gotten so used to it would not have it any other way.

[SatinSarah]

good question. Seems we all share a fialry common experience. Even when our wives tolerate us most would prefer if it went away. I have just reemerged after a 2 year gap. She is now finding an acceptable level where we can share Sarah. She is not prepared to see me fully dressed at the moment. But she is ok with lingerie. Last week she asked me to dress and offered me her silky nightie. She allowed me to wear her new shoes to jump into bed. She enjoyed bed time but I agreed only to wear what she is comfortable with. Hopefully this way Sarah will be allowed to stay out and play

[Patsy Stone GG]

Nope.

[Sheila]

nope is the answer I would give the majority of the time at the moment but, just occasionally I suppose I would be at least a little tempted to head for it --- but i am still at the newbie stage so I suppose it just gets confusing at times still

Jess

[Marcie Sexton]

Not only would she, she did...but after almost a year later, whith all my things turned over to her to dispose of as she wished, she seen how I had with drawn and become moody, spending more time at work, and NO not an affair either. Just total want and need to be away from the house that held Marcie.
Then this past November, on my bithday I was presented with a huge box gift wrapped and told to enjoy. Needless to say it was all my things along with some new Mary Kay makeup. Our agreement wa tokeep it between us two. I had revealed to m neice several years ago, to her agast, but gradual acceptance my dressing. Needless to say "V" was not a happy camper. I never ask why she had the change in heart, but one of the agreed stipulations was we keep it atleast for now in house and out of town when we went shopping.
For me it was like being delivered from the hottest pits of hell and a revitialized relationship with my wife. Her being a former RN, I think now she sees that perhaps there is more to dressing, than dressing...Perhaps something in our genetic makeup that tells us we are women, but are learning to live with it the best possible way.

[Sweet Jane]

I'm not quite sure how this button pushing would work, and I'm not sure what my wife might do...I really think she would leave it alone, because if pushing it meant she got the "normal man" about the house and lost the (in her words) "great wife" who does most of the cooking and cleaning, as well as the man things around the place, then she would in essense lose the "me" she knows and loves.

Now me on the other hand...I'd push it.....