Okay, so I set two boundaries, dont bring dressing into our bedroom -period - the bedroom was to be neutral ground....he asked me to tell him what a bad girl he is - in the middle of having sex - and then, a few nights later, he went to sleep in our bed in womens clothes....he broke the two rules that were the first two laid down and the two that meant the most to me....why did he do this? is he that selfish that he doesnt care about my feelings and only cares about his own happiness and what he wants??? xoxoC/