How many GG's have you come out to, and how many accepted you?

[loki_uk]

I've come out to quite a few female friends most of whom have seen me dressed, but when asked would you being accepting if it was your bloke in a dress then flip flop over the issue and the answer is really no

So that's women I guess, they're most accepting as long as it isn't their bloke

[Bernice]

Four, in person and personally, and all four found out over 33 years ago. Two of them turned out to be not very nice people, including one who used my CDing as a reason to get our marriage annulled. The other two have been good/great friends, and one of them has been my wife legally for almost 31 years.

[Missy Anne]

Besides my wife whom most of you know here, I found it desirable/necessary to tell a close GG friend last year.

I was extremely apprehensive about it and was sort of stumbling over my words during the buildup. She finally said "so what is it?" I gritted my teeth, took a deep breath and said "I'm a crossdresser".

She said "COOL!"

I was shocked at her response and immediate acceptance. We have since discussed it many times and I have gotten some really good tips since she is a really smart dresser herself.

I also enjoy it when sometimes she will kid me about it.

Missy Anne

[michele_t39]

I have come out to 3 gg's so far. Of course they were all very selectively chosen. I have not got the courage yet to spill to my SO. I have confidence that when I do it will hit the fan, so I am waiting for after the holidays. I know, call me chicken.

[Robin Leigh]

I have come out to 3 gg's so far. Of course they were all very selectively chosen. I have not got the courage yet to spill to my SO. I have confidence that when I do it will hit the fan, so I am waiting for after the holidays. I know, call me chicken.

You're not chicken, michele! Even just thinking about telling your SO can be scary.

Don't rush things. Before you tell her, make sure you will feel comfortable answering any question she may have. If you show that you accept yourself, it's easier for others to accept you, too.

Best of luck!



Robin

[MsJanessa]

"Coming out to" and "being accepted by" does not equal "hop in the sack with." Huge differences.

Roger that Hon----I have many GG friends who are fine with My dressing and even go out with Me while I'm dressed---Relativly few however want to have sex with Me when I'm dressed(there was of course My lesbian freind Leigh who told Me my kisses where as sensual as a woman's--lol) Difference is that if a gf or spouse has met and fallen in love with you as a guy that's a pretty clear indication that they are turned on by guys not t-girls. Go through most of the GGs posts in this forum, you will find relativly few about how great it is to have a sexual relationship with a T-girl but many about how hard it is to accept the fact that their boyfriend, hubby, SO is into wearing womens clothes, makeup and wigs.

[rickwi25]

2 gg's that I met thru dating phone service...one was very into it, which probably because of my immaturity made me pull back. 2 ex's that I told after we broke up and both said they would have been accepting of it...one I am still friends with. My mom...when I lived at home I'd dress in front of her all the time. We would look thru catalogs together and she'd buy nylons for me if I asked.

[Deidra Cowen]

My old GG GF of course was kewl with it, but thats not quite fair since I met her out at a club when I was dressed. Generally GGs out at the nightclubs seem very accepting. I had one get my phone number Wednesday night at da Prince of Wales ...a English Pub (Str8 bar) near downtown Atlanta.

Of course she has not called yet! :mad:

[Kimberley]

I have only disclosed to a couple of GG's (outside of here of course)

The first was my wife who was and remains totally unaccepting and opposed to any of this. This is probably one of the biggest hurdles I have had to come to grips with.:

The other is a friend I have known on the net for about 10 years now. She is totally accepting and supportive, at least as far as she can be (she is Brasilian) She has helped me through some really rough patches and I love her to bits.

Unfortunately her travels for her job (she was a corporate lawyer in International Law) never brought her closer than NYC so we have never met.

Someday.

Kimberley

[Josie06]

Other than the GG's who read what I post here --- none.

My SO is not as understanding at the GG/SO's I've read here.

So I wait an hope to find someone to talk to.