a question for the cd'ers

[MJ]

hi girls
i hope you don't mind but i wanted to know if there was a absolute test to determine weather you were supposed to be born a girl and the test was positive " that yes you should have been " would that change your life or would you stay as you are ? thank you .. hugs Marissa

[Nike]

My personal belief is that I was born exactly as intended.

A direct answer to the question you posed is:

I would maintain life on the course it is heading. I am well adjusted, comfortable in my own skin, happily married, gainfully employed and optimistic about the future.

A test at this point telling me that I was originally meant to be a female would not erase 47 years of experience as a transgendered male.

[Holly]

Given the advantage of hindsight, I wouldn't change a thing. I'm happy, I have the love of a good woman, wonderful children. I have the freedom to express my feminine side... what more do I need?

[Amy Hepker]

Someone did provide a link to a site a while back and I did take the test. It showed that I was right where I am, in the middle of 2 worlds. There are things in my past that I would've liked to have changed, but where I am now I am comfortable with the Lady I have and the life I have (except for my job). I don't think I would ever had sexual reassignment no matter what. But I do wish that, I would have come out years ago.

[Karren H]

Nahhhh....Having way too much fun in both genders....!!!

K

[Sasha Anne Meadows]

Yeah. We don't need a test. We know who we are and we just love it.

[darley dee]

I would not change a thing !

[Margot]

Marissa; I would consider changing if I knew it would be accpetable to my whole family. I'd love the change now but my three children would not be supportive in any way, shape, or form. So I continue out to my wife but closeted from children and other family members. Don't feel sad for me I love my family very much and make the sacrifices for them.
Hugs
Margot

[JoanneB]

I took a couple of those tests and all said that I am a woman. If I never got married, I would have gone through the process and had SRS. But, being 54 years old now and married for 30 years, there is no way that I would hurt my family. At least my wife is supportive of Joanne.

Joanne

[Kate Simmons]

I wouldn't change a thing either. I wouldn't be who I am now (for better or worse)if I wasn't who I was before if that makes any sense. I wouldn't have the insight I do today if anything would have happened differently. Ericka/Rich

[ashlee chiffon]

i'm getting a little to on in years to consider altering physically...but i think my inner self has always told me i prefer the "girl" in me and that is the strongest influence in my life...
the test would have proven positive...

[Phoebe Reece]

Such a test wouldn't change anything for me. I'm pretty happy with my life.

[Jenna1561]

If the test were truly valid and widely accepted as accutate and unerring, then I would have wished to have taken the test early in my life, when I might have made a decision to shange my life direction.

If I were to take the test now, it would validate my feelings, but with a wife and children, I don't think that major life changes would be in the offing. I'm sure that with the test results put forth, I would be more feminine in my lifestyle.


Jenna

[Lisa Golightly]

I'd change species.

[Paula G]

I would stay the way I am. I am very happy with this part of my life.

[ColleenCD]

Marissa,

Being married 26 years with a grown child, I could not abandon the comittments made to those I love. If this discovery were made 30 years previous that I was indeed hormonally, genetically, but not physically was born female and given the medical science available today were present then, I could make a rational decision, most likely in favor of the change. I would then grow into a super model. ( Sorry, still dreaming.)


Colleen

[Sasha Anne Meadows]

But how many of you would really want srs. Or can we just live as we are?

[Jenna1561]

Sasha, love that name by the way, if I were younger and didn't have the family considerations AND could afford it somehow, YES, I'd have SRS.


Jenna

[ashlee chiffon]

good answer!!!

[Kate Simmons]

I'd change species.

Sounds good Lisa. I'd go back to being an ET. More fact than fiction, really. Rich

[ReginaK]

I'd change. I couldn't do any worse than i'm doing now.

[mandydawson]

hi i kind of like it where i am with you girls hugs and a kiss mandy

[Kimkandy]

if there was a absolute test to determine weather you were supposed to be born a girl

There is such a test, I think they check if the baby has a virgina. They use this test for the birth certificate.

I know it's not infallible and sometimes they might still get it wrong...

Kim

[PatriciaCD]

I wouldn't change a thing. I love being me.

[Charleen]

At 55, I yam what I yam, and content. Love and xxxx, Lily