Here's my situation. god son (9 at the time), about 3 years ago got got conned into putting on a dress and wearing makeup (ok, happens all the time). Then 2 years ago stealing diapers from his 5-year old sister. I thought nothing of it, figured it was some weird baby fetish. Then about a year ago he started stealing his 12 year old sister's underwear (Ok, mayyybe he's a crossdresser at heart at this point.. nahh, chalk it up to someone with an underwear fetish). Now the latest, he stole one of her skirts (now I'm convinced he's a crossdresser). I want to help, maybe even console, but I don't know how to go about it. His parents are very old fashioned italian, and think he's the biggest freak in the world and can't comprehend why he's doing this. I have a feeling that if I have a talk with his mother, she might think I somehow implanted the idea into his head (she can sometimes jump to obscure conclusions). I can't very well just directly talk to him because it would most surely get back to his mom, and then I would look even worse for appearing to be hiding it and having alterior motives. How can I approach this safely?