About 5 years ago, I walked in on my husband, fully dressed as a woman. I was shocked, as I guess many people are the first time they see it. I have never seen this since. He 'swore' to me it was just a 'thing' and that he threw the clothes away. Well, I knew in my mind, that it couldn't be just a 'thing'. He had to still be doing this. I kinda blocked it out for the last couple of years, but recently, I found a size 10 shoe box; and I don't wear size 10 shoes. Yes, I snooped, and finally found 'the stash'.
Being honest here, I am at loss at trying to understand it; however, I love him dearly and wouldn't leave him for anything. I feel like I need to 'confront' him so he purposely doesn't hide it from me, but don't want him to know I snooped around and found his hiding place and the key.
How should I approach this with him?
Thanks so much for your help.