I don't know the best way to tell my wife that I want to attend a night or day out with some other Crossdressers. I really wanted to go to this X-mas party tonight as Denise , It was a support group in Jersey I even E-Mailed the hostess and got directions. I would have met at some motel and gotton dressed and went over to the party. I got scared and never went Reading all these posts on how exciting it is to go out dressed {and not on Halloween , that don't count } has me wanting this feeling badly. I have gotton some nice comments from you girls that gave me courage to move further. I Know I need to see what it is like to be Denise around others to see if I like that feeling. I am a bit nervous because once I walk through that door, I know my life is going to change. The first time most of you met with other CD's be it at a bar, social event, home or mall, did you tell your [No so supporting wife} ??? <> Hey hon, I just wanted you to know that tonight I will be dressed as a woman and enjoying the night as a girl. I will do my best to pass as a female so don't worry about me I have been practicing. I will be late so don't wait up. She is already suspusious that I am chatting with some of you but doesn't know of the pictures I posted or the threads I started. I think she might have seen the site maybe So what would you girls do , or what suggestions do you have. I don't like to be sneeky, but we are all a little sneeky at times. any advise Hugs denise