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    Being submissive

    When I'm all dressed up I like to be a submissive female. When all of you are dressed how do you like to be?

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    Just myself. I tend to be a "tomboy" though even when I'm dressed to the "nines".
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    I'm pretty demure, but I don't think submissive describes me. I'm white, almost 50 and live in an upper-middle class environment. So, more like: ladylike with the possibility of turning into a total bitch at a moment's notice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DayTripper View Post
    I'm pretty demure, but I don't think submissive describes me. I'm white, almost 50 and live in an upper-middle class environment. So, more like: ladylike with the possibility of turning into a total bitch at a moment's notice.
    Ooooh! My kinda person DT. However, when they call me "bitch", I insist on "Ms Bitch". I do have my pride ya know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ericka/Rich View Post
    However, when they call me "bitch", I insist on "Ms Bitch".
    Nothing less, babe, or else ... it's the ol' Zsa-Zsa backhand.

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    Well I tend to be submissive while dressed, but I have always been a bit to femdom (which I think originally was the reason for trying women's clothes).

    Still I'd love to try dressing up a proper leather dom ...
    Finding my girly girl... It has to be hidden into my lingeries...

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    I tend to be submissive, but have to be a rock too. It life you have to take what you get. I am still My GLadys Man even in a dress.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vicky Morgan View Post
    I prefer to be submissive.It works for my wife,she will order me to clean the bathrooms,fold laundry,do the dishes,give her a massage etc.Helps her and is a fun for me.
    Okay, works for me Vicky. You can come over and help me. I kinda hate housework and live like a bachelor(ette). Maybe I need a good woman around the house, huh?
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    My best friend is a 'lesbo', her term not mine. I never really thought about it, but I like being dominated when I'm around her. So I guess that would make me submissive.

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    I stay as I am. And that means dominant. That is my nature. Just change from dom to domme and prefere to stay like that.

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    Dominating,I just can't be submissive. I am not a control freak but I am just hard headed and stubborn.
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    I'm rather submissive, but not in the sense of sadomasochism submission. Just the abandonment of a loving woman to the man she adores and would be ready to do anything for him...

    Actually, I'm rather submissive as a man too... Again in a loving relation, not at all in a sadomasochist one.


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    Hi.

    I have always been submissive. But since I went on hrt, and started living full time female. I have become even more submissive.

    Susan
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    I am definitely submissive. All day I have to be dominant in my work role so I relish being Kristen.
    I like the phrase demure....hmmm...that sounds softer than submissive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vicky Morgan View Post
    I prefer to be submissive.It works for my wife,she will order me to clean the bathrooms,fold laundry,do the dishes,give her a massage etc.Helps her and is a fun for me.
    Just curious... do you get sexual pleasure from doing housework?

    Kim


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    Smile

    Yes, I do tend to be on sub side when dressed.

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    This question really was a vital one for me when I started crossdressing.
    Much of the information I could ever find about CD involved being submissive. I was beginning to think that if I crossdressed I had to be submissive. It was through this forum that I discovered otherwise.
    When dressed as a woman, I may be ladylike, I may be elegant, I may be demure, but I'm never submissive.
    I may not be dominating or aggressive, but I'm definitely assertive.
    (Very Mrs. Peel)

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    I don't get sexual pleasure while dressed and doing housework; but I surely do get a lot more done. I'm single, living alone; so I'm the only one who does the laundry, dishes, dusting and all. My drab side is lazy in doing that, while my veronica side is a lot more ambitious. Never could figure that out!

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    Depends on who i am with. If it is a guy i really like i cave in and let him take the lead.

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    as soon that you are not able to do what you want you we I are submissed, by society , by family, by your own decision
    for all sisters who are not able to come out isn't the first and main submission??

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    An older, related thread a lot of people commented on:

    http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...t=38198&page=5

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