Enfemme 2007 What are your goals?

[Sophia Rearen]

[SIZE="3"]A new year is upon us. What are your goals this year relating to cross dressing. Not the usual stuff to be broken like I want to lose X # of pounds, or I want to stop smoking. Those resolutions are typically forgotten very quickly. I'm asking about specific, attainable, and realistic goals. I met most of mine for 2006. It was a great year for being enfemme. I went shopping, to the casino, and checked into a resort enfemme. I did fall short on one specific goal and that was to do a museum enfemme, so I'll add that to the list again this year and put it at the top. Second goal, to sit at the MAC store for a makeover and find out first hand, what all the hub bub is all about. Third, have a glam day and let someone else take the pictures for a change.

So what have you done and where are you going?[/SIZE]

[Tina Dixon]

You know the truth is I have no goals at all for my fem side, sad but so true, got so many things going on that just finding the time to be Tina will be a struggle, oh well

[marie354]

As I'm new to going public, my challange for 2007 is simpley to be able to go out enfemme and learn to relax and enjoy the adventure, and get comfortable about it as so many others seem to have done on this forum.
One step at a time.

[Sierra Evon]

To realize my full female potential, be less fearful of some public places, discover the stronger Sierra side.

[Rene]

My two goals for the next year is to start laser hair removal, and to start to come out to family. I am going to start with telling my older sister. I think she will be the most receptive, so I will start there.

[celeste26]

I will be going to a local transformation service for the first time in February and yes I expect lot of pictures can be shared with everyone.

Second goal is loss of weight (about 50lbs)like so many others but I'm serious this time. We'll see after the year is over just how much I have lost

[Melanie R]

My goal in 2007 is to educate thousands of people about transgendered persons through television appearances, newspaper articles and public speaking engagements. Hopefully through education many in our society can come to understanding and acceptance of the millions of men and women in the US and worldwide who cross gender lines.

Happy New Year.

Melanie

[linnea]

Thank you so much for posing (and posting) this question, Sophia! I accomplished a lot last--at least a lot more than I would ever have expected--, even though I did not explicitly set any goals. However, I think that setting some and achieving them would be very satisfying.
Last year (2006), I checked into and stayed overnight in a motel en femme. I went shopping at Macy's, Lane Bryant, and Dress Barn, and I had my measurements for bras taken by an SA at Lane Bryant. I also opened a charge account under my femme name at Lane Bryant.
In 2007, I have three main femme goals: first, I want to meet at least one other crossdresser in person--for coffee and conversation. Two, I want to go to a movie. Three, I want to stay at a motel for a weekend--check in, stay and use my room as a base for shopping, etc., and check out--all en femme.
I'm going to try hard to achieve these goals and take pictures or have pictures taken to document what I do.
Thank you again for asking!

[Glenda58]

My one goal is to get a makeover. Second is to meet new friends.

[Girly Sara]

Hi girls!

My main girly aim for 2007 is to learn to apply my own make up. Bought a nice set a few weeks ago and will pro-actively spend as much time as possible perfecting a look for Sara....or at least trying to! lol

Pleased to say that my ultimum goal was achieved earlier this year when i did my first ever salon visit and shopping mall trip enfemme! However, i need to do that more often to boost my confidence. I'm also very pleased with myself that i feel very confident expressing my girly side whilst in drab mode too. Wearing more girly stuff in male mode (nothing that screams female though!) Have also come out to several girls at work who are fine with it.

There is another goal i wish to achieve, too. I've been driving enfemme for my club nights for well over a year now BUT i've never got out of my car to fill it up with petrol (gas) or to use the toilet (restroom) To be honest, i haven't had the need to but i'm going to come out of my comfort zone to build up my confidence.

Anyways, that's all from me for now!

Hugs from Sara xxx

[carla smith]

To get the message to all of us here, including myself, to........

"have fun out there"!

Have a happy New Year...and may all your wishes come true!

Kisses and Hugs, Carla

[marie354]

My goal in 2007 is to educate thousands of people about transgendered persons through television appearances, newspaper articles and public speaking engagements. Hopefully through education many in our society can come to understanding and acceptance of the millions of men and women in the US and worldwide who cross gender lines.

Happy New Year.

Melanie

That's great! Hope you can get on Oprah! That would give national exposure, maybe international! I don't know many GG's that don't watch her. Some men watch too.
Good luck!

Wish I had the courage to stand by you on TV.

[Karren H]

Well...loose the holiday weight would be nice....check into a hotel enfemme on a business trip....ride the subway downtown and shop for the day returning on the subway....take a long enfemme bike ride on one of our rails-to-trails paths.... Buy a few new outfits (surprise!!), try to break my record of 2+ continuous days enfemme....

Love Karren

[KimberlyS]

My only really true Femme goal is to continue to work with my wife to find a place that my CDing fits within our marriage.

A secondary Femme goal started out and still is a male goal to loose some weight to be more health. To hopefully push me along I bought a nice 3 piece outfit in a lovely purple color but is 2 sizes too small for me with matching shoes. I was going to hang this where I could see it for incentive, but have yet to do that... I may need to do that tonight.

KimberlyS-CD

[Kristen Marie]

Mine for 2007 is to find a specific look and identity for Kristen. I've been in a rut for several years and after listening to you ladies, there's a whole world out there to explore. You have helped open up new levels of shopping to me with your encouraging words and posts. And because of that I have found so many helpful sales associates. This has been the most fun I have ever had as Kristen. 2007 can only be better....

[Lanore]

Keep walking on the path I am on. I love who I've become and look forward to who I will be.

Lanore

[Teresa Amina]

More real-world broad-daylight experiences such as

to do a museum enfemme

which should get done during the Chicago Be-All, lots of great places to go But the biggest goal is to work on the Voice and at least get close to what I want.

[Susan Johnson]

Lose some lard off the waist, 40lbs would be good. Then find the time to dress femme. Last two weeks before Christmas I didn't have time to stop and think, let alone dress.
Susan

[myMichelle]

Although not specifically a 2007 goal, it has long been a goal of mine to be more out, more open. Along those lines, in 2006, I came out to all of my neighbors to the point where I am now able to openly walk the dog as Michelle...I hope to continue on my quest to be true to myself in 2007 and beyond.

[Susan Wade]

Go Shopping emfemme

Get a nice makeup lesson.

I just love being a special girl and would love to totally come out ...but it is very hard.

For me a big step will be going up to the make up artist and telling them it is me ... that wants to be a beautiful woman.

[Joy Carter]

You know the truth is I have no goals at all for my fem side, sad but so true, got so many things going on that just finding the time to be Tina will be a struggle, oh well

Hey Tina there is always Royal Oak if you want to get out with us gurls.

[Joy Carter]

Ha then I wouldn't be me now then would I ? Mine is to have a professional makeup and nail job. Preferably at the same place. Then next would be meet as many new friends as possible through out the year. Hear that Glenda and Renee K

[Sally24]

2006 was full of first but I won't bore everyone with the past!

In 2007 I too am planning on going to MAC for a makeover to see if their stuff is worth the price.

I hope to finish facial electrolysis so that I can just get up and put on make-up for the day (have already gotten to the point of only 1 shave a day).

I am going to work diligently on my voice. My wife says that is my only real weak point now. If working with the DVD and CD doesn't do it, then maybe a few coaching lessons. I would dearly love to get a beleivable and maybe even a little sexy voice by Summer!

I want to take a week long vacation totally en femme! The longest so far is 3 days. I would really like to go to NYC if possible and take in all the sights as a girl on the street.

The rest if the typical "work on my abs and waistline" type of thing. I've done well this year and it really helps me to be focused on the New Year.

Good luck to everyone else. May all your plans go well!

Love,

Sally

[Christina Nicole]

A few things, I suppose. Always want to improve. So better makeup skills, looks and the like and also to improve mannerisms, voice and those types of things. Voice is probably my biggest challenge. That means finding a voice coach with whom I can work on my bizarre schedule. I also keep thinking about electrolysis or laser for facial hair. That would really improve things and make doing makeup much easier.

A simpler goal is to work on my casual wardrobe. I don't have much for going out on a Saturday afternoon. The difficulty is that I abhor jeans -- who wants to wear the least-common-denominator uniform?

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[susie evans]

next year that means out in fem more often more shopping and oh yes the worst part lose the weigth i gained during the hollidays happy new year