Fiona,
Sorry to hear that your going through hell rite now.I've been separated for
7mos now,this is my 2nd marriage and it seems just like the first one,or any of my broken relationships with all of the women that i've been with.They don't do no wrong,all your fault everytime.They can't discuss their problems,they hold it inside until their ready to blow,and the next thing out of their mouth is the word "DIVORSE". They just can't cope with real life.They think everything is going to go perfect all the time.Well that aint life...Comunication is the only thing that holds relationships together.If you don't have that, then,get the hell out.Because your not going to be able to change that hard headed woman.And if her family is in the middle of it you may as well hang it up."Been there done that" twice...
As for the child,they usually go with the mother,unless you can prove her unfit,and that's pretty hard to do.She also has to prove that your a crossdresser.How many people know about you?I was going to try to get custody of my 10yr old son and my13yr old daughter and my wife was the only one that knew about my dressing, so i gathered up all my fem stuff and i do mean everything,and went to extremes and threw it all(crying now)in the garbage.Wished i'd never done that because i moved out.
You really need to go get you a lawyer before she does and file first.Have the papers served on her first,that will make her head spin.
Just trying to help.Divorses are real messy. Sounds like she'll screw the dress rite of you, if you don't get her first. I'm sorry but that is the way it is..for real.
Sorry hun,i didn't mean to scare you,i just hate to see a guy get screwed ,like i've been."TWICE"..............
Sorry i had to be so rough,but i could write a book on my life,and my women caused me to go crazy and broke too.............
Just hopeing ya'll can work things out or at least get along....
Wishing you good luck,
Hugs and kisses girl,
Bobbie Jo
The new girl in town,
but not that new...............Lord,please help this girl..Amen..