I would like to find out you girls' experiences with clubs and groups. I once went to a CD support group meeting in Memphis Tenn. It was my first time, and I have not been to another group meeting since. The individuals there were mostly interesting, and generally "nice". There was one individual who had a real "bitch attitude" and made the rest of us really uncomfortable. (I myself was in male attire). The most fascinating person I met there was a pre-op TS, who was just completing the mandatory year of living full-time as a "woman". This person was a police officer for the Memphis Police Dept, and the medical insurance was paying for the surgery/hormones, and (s)he was going to keep his/her job.
I am now considering trying the club/group scene again. I want to go first in drab, and "sound out" the group dynamic. If I feel comfortable and accepted, and the group is not too "far out", I will then attend in femme.
What have been your experiences? How should a beginner approach these groups/clubs?