I've met a wonderful woman who accepts my cding

[bredalee25]

Hi all i just wanted to tell the greatest news. I've met a wonderful woman and she accepts my cding and i'm in love with her. She is such a sweetie she even offered to do my make up and then a photo shoot. I'm so in love with her she's got my heart and i've got hers. There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet. plus the fact that she lives 695 miles away from me so right now all we can do is chat. I've got this forum to thank for meeting her i replied to one of her posts in a private message we became fast friends and now we've spoke on the phone and we're in love. She knows who she is i won't give her name on here as she doesn't know i'm posting this.

I love you sweetie can't wait til we can be together

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[Kate Simmons]

Bren, I am so happy for you to find someone. She'll know soon that you posted though. What do they say about the three fastest means of communication? "Tell a woman" is in there somewhere. Ericka

[MistyCD]

Marry her !!!!


misty

[Cheryl GG]

glad you found somebody...means alot in life....aint love grand.....xoxoxC/

[Miss Terr]

Good to hear.
I did too sounds like the same situation, she asked if it would be ok to go shopping while i am enfemme and try on outfits, etc.; shes only 35 miles away I am having dinner with her on Wed.
Shes a little on the large side, but Im not judgemental like that anymore...

[Rachel Morley]

I'm someone who met their wife on a crossdressing forum (not this one) and we both completely hit it off and fell head over heels in love with one another. I was not 695 miles away though....I was 5,500 miles away on another continent!

Joking aside, IMHO relationships that "build" when you can only speak on the phone or email mean that you get more "emotionally intimate" with the other person because you talk more and learn more about one another than (I would argue) perhaps if you saw each other every day. If it's going to last it will ....and of course the other massive thing is, that "the cat is already out of the bag" so to speak, and so you can look forward to never having to "have the talk about being different"

[CrissyBlair]

I'm happy for you. I wish I had told my wife before we were married and fortuniately after about 7 years of marriage she accecpted me after the "talk" and it's been 3 years now. I now have a fair collection of femme clothes and accessories and we go out on occasion.
I thought I could never have my cake and eat it too! It's great that you met somebody and I wish you the best of luck!

-Crissy

[Robin Leigh]

I've met a wonderful woman and she accepts my cding and i'm in love with her. She is such a sweetie she even offered to do my make up and then a photo shoot. I'm so in love with her she's got my heart and i've got hers.

There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet.

Good luck with this, Brenda. I hope you can do this in a way such that nobody gets hurt.

FWIW, there aren't a lot of single GGs here, so it's not too hard to narrow down the possibilities.



Robin

[Lovely Rita]

I wish you much happiness.

hugs

[Ranee Daze]

For all of those in Eastern Ontario/western Quebec. There is a GG in this area interested in meeting sensitive CD's. PM me if you are interested.

[Emily Ann Brown]

All I can say is HURRAY sis !!!!!!


Emily Ann

[bredalee25]

Marry her !!!!


misty

I will marry her one day when the time is right.

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[bredalee25]

I thought i'd move this up to see if anyone else had anything to say about my post.

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[Tina Dixon]

So how you going to tell the other person in your life?

[Holly]

...There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet... plus the fact that she lives 695 miles away from me so right now all we can

I'd say you've got the cart before the horse. I think it's terribly unfair to all of you for you to be developing a new relationship before concluding your current one. It's unfair to your old relationship because you have removed all incentive to reconcile; to your new relationship because you are not in a position to give total emotional support to your new relationship; and it is unfair of you to use two women, neither of whom you are totally committed to. Well, you asked if anyone had anything else to say about your post.

[Rebecca_Annette]

Great news!!

Be happy! I pray it works out well for both of you

(and I'm soooooooooooooooo . . . . . . . . . envious! )


Love and peace
Rebecca

[Robin Leigh]

I think it's terribly unfair to all of you for you to be developing a new relationship before concluding your current one.

Well, you asked if anyone had anything else to say about your post.

Thanks, Mom! I was beginning to think I was the only one disturbed by that...



Robin

[Amy Hepker]

Well,
I'm glad for you I guess. It's hard being in a relationship when the right one comes along. I just hope it doesn't all fall apart on you, which it could very well. Just be careful and think of everyone in your life.

[Shannon CD]

[QUOTE=Holly;701287] It's unfair to your old relationship because you have removed all incentive to reconcile;QUOTE]


Absolutely, Holly. Recently being on the wrong side of this particular scenario, I can tell you it hurts like hell when you realize that no matter how hard you tried you never really had a chance. The one you love simply creates larger hurdles with the sole intention of making you fail so that you can be the "bad guy" in the relationship and they feel justified in running off to the "greener grass", as it were.

[cocopuff's girl GG]

I also think you should totally end one before starting another. In my book that would be cheating on the one who doesn't know about the new relationship. Also remember that it's always exciting and fresh in the beginning, that is because it's new and in a honeymoon mode.. An old saying (The grass always looks greener on the other side, until you get over there and then notice it's growing over the septic tank) My ex discovered that about a year or two after leaving me and his two son's for another woman. He thought she was so much better and then after the damage was done discovered that she was far worse than I could have ever dreamed of being. He know's he messed up but what's done is done. This new GG may be just what you need and may be a great person but I'd say end one before starting another.

[Kristen Kelly]

[SIZE="3"]First congratulation for finding someone who accepts you for you, my rule of thumb give it 6 months when they are comfortable with you the true their self will come out. Till then either see where the old flame stands of end it before you put too many irons in the fire. [/SIZE]

[RachelDenise]

I've got to agree with Holly. Finish before you start. Move along and do what you must. It will hurt no matter when you do it. The sooner the better. Don't let it linger.

[Sandra]

Cake and eat it comes to mind.

[bredalee25]

This is all great advice and you've given me alpt to thonk about. Don't worry i'm not gonna burn my bridges so to speak. Nor am i gonna make this move before i end my current relationship.


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[kellyann2012]

Your very fortunate to find someone who understands and loves you for who you are. I wish you the best of luck.