A few years back I spent several days with Diana, a cd friend of mine, in downtown Chicago. We spent virtually the whole time in girl mode. Went shopping, went out to eat, went to the theater ,went to gay clubs, transgender clubs, lesbian clubs and straight clubs. Shared a hotel room, shared clothes and shared stories. Passed together, got read together. It was one of the most fun weekends I've ever had in girl mode.
Then I lost touch with her for a couple of years. Recently I got an email from her and was surprised to find that she now had breast implants and was living full time as a woman. I don't think she's had SRS, but I don't know for sure.
She emailed to say that she wants to get together again in the next couple of months. It seems odd to say but I find myself thinking that I might feel uncomfortable in that situation. Spending time with another cd was one thing, but spending time with her as a card carrying woman would lend a different dynamic to our relationship.
Any suggestions as how to handle the situation?
Here's a photo of me and Diana in less confusing times.
http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2005-...aandDiana1.jpg