I'm just curious---have any of you ladies out there made dates to meet other T-Girls(either for romance or just friendship) got all made up and dressed up and then been stood up with absolutly no reason or explanation given at all--either by e-mail or phone? I've had this happen to me many times and it always amazes me how rude and inconsiderate it is of the people to do this. Is this a wide spread occurence with those of you, who like me, are out and actually meeting other T-Girls? And for those girls who are guilty of this---what's your reason? I understand that going out is not for every body but once you make a date you should keep it, or at least call or write to cancel it before the other person goes to the bother of getting dressed, made up, hair done etc to meet you. To do otherwise is the height of ill manners.