I am coming up to a change in my domestic situation where no crossdressing supplies at all will be allowed. I am planning one last outing before I purge. What would you all do?
I am coming up to a change in my domestic situation where no crossdressing supplies at all will be allowed. I am planning one last outing before I purge. What would you all do?
dont throw it awas. youll regret it and just have to replace it all.
If the value (sentimental or cash) is more than you can let go of, package it and post/deliver it to someone you trust.
Consider whether to make you S.O. aware of your arrangements. It may create a little friction, however secrets can be much worse for a relationship, even when they are kept.
I've had this same relationship with Porn. I have purged and restored over the years, over and over again. Until the desire is really transformed or surrendered (diminished in favor of CD activity and fantasy), it just gets more intense. I believe this would happen to me if I purged. So, when you purge, prepare for the 'Revenge of the Tedi.'
Roberta
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How many times I fought it in the past and always returned...hehe. You can get rid of it but youll be shopping next month we all know that...its sissy nature;-)
Bethany
Wedding Dresses...Perals...and Heels...Oh My!
I have purged at least 5 times, and now I have more than I ever have. You'll be back, I'm sure. Try to stay away, just try.
Ladies have a GREAT time!
Smile GOD LOVES you!!!
GOD BLESS US ALL!!!
AMY Hepker
ROSES ARE RED
VIOLETS ARE BLUE
I'LL BE ME
AND YOU BE YOU
I am in agreement with most of the rest . Find some were to store it. Domestic situations are fluid and generally not for life. Cross dressing is.
cheers Billie
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But High heels and Handcuffs excite me.
Billie in Albera
Amy...you and I think alike...do you remember what it was like when you purged...horrid...I was shopping within days!
Bethany
Wedding Dresses...Perals...and Heels...Oh My!
One of the reasons I never buy anything that's too expensive!
Thank God for Payless and Ebay!
Life's too short to not do the things that make you happy.
Well since shopping enfemme doesn't make any scence....lol I would dress up really fem, head downtown and just go sight seeing, movies, dinner..... just regular things but enfemme.... make a day of it....take all you fem things with you and on the way home stop by the goodwill, enfemme, and donate everything you have except what you have on.... Take tons of photos..... to remember the day.... That's what I'd do....
Love Karren
me? I would rethink the entire prospect.
Store it! This one of those things that never go away,you mite hide it for awhile but it'l come back. You need to talk with your partner and work something out don't force anything just go easy and see what happens.
Ranee, I agree with the other girls. Have a great night out on the town. Find some place to store your clothes. You'll be back.
Face it girl, you're one of us.
I purged once before and it was the worst thing I ever done, surely you can rent out somewhere to store the items or if anyone knows about the dressing ask them to mind the clothes for a while.
Trust us purgeing is a bad idea plus such a waste of money lol.
I hope all works out well for you.
well Ranee to me thats a sad state of affairs if u are with someone who doesnt accept that side of u than u are living for someones else expense and thats no way to live, if u cant dress then whats the point u should be able to embrace that side of yourself if u are with someone they should accept u for u no questions asked luv has no boundaries good luck in all your endeavors!
hi
what would I do..I wouldn't purge. Thats cost me too much money in the pst replacing. Just park your gear.
Censorship reflects society's lack of confidence in itself. It is a hallmark of an authoritarian regime. ~Potter Stewart
You'll be sorry!
You ain't gonna stop it, your only on hiatus. And, when you need your stuff again you will cry! Do what everybody is advising, get a storage unit and tell them you will be in at the first of the month to pay in cash. Make sure they understand no bills and NOTHING on the credit card, which they will probably require for security.
Keep your end of the bargain and pay promptly. Then, to keep your sanity, a little "field trip" to a not so distant motel every few months would seem to be in order.
Yeah, I know it's sneaky. But anything beats "The Purge!"
Peace and Love, Joanie
I gotta be honest, after such a stupendous title, I'm a little dissappointed with the actual post. The clever wording snagged me right away and that's hard to do. If you're not a salesman, you should be.
I got nothing to say about the actual post except have fun and be careful.
Karren,
If I were ever to choose to purge, I would take your positive advice, and make a sweet memory of it.
Roberta
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