Originally Posted by
Tracy_Victoria
Jess
I thing your missing lots of points here. firstly this is not a tap we can switch on and off. Yep I know some here want a be, 24/7 but I can certainly see where martin is coming from in this case.
I love to dress, but when I'm ready, some times I have clearence to do so, my SO has made plans, the kids are at school, I have 3 green lights and yet I can't be bothered to do so. it can be, very much like bottling a bottle of pop, you keep shaking it, and when you come to open it, it's flat, there is no fizz at all.
This is a really difficult hobby, and you can't believe how stressful it can be to want to dress and bottle it up for family, but we do (well us married guys that are not 24/7 with kids), and Martin and me sound very alike, ie with kids about, your always unsure, always on your guard, you can never relax, and maybe it like that for martin. maybe he just felt it was not right, something I have done myself many times.
I hate to put it down to such a crude form, but think of it like sex, or chocalate, all day you can crave it, want it, but when it presented on a plate your just not hungry, or the moment has gone. sadly crossdressing can be like that, and there is a real difference to having a green light, and having one when you need it.
I hope this hopes