Since June 2005 I have been " dressing " 24/ 7, after many years of not dressing at all, except for very rare ocassions when I would put on a panty or bra, this rarity lasted during my thirty year plus marriage, but since the time that my wife died, late 2004, I have slowly changed and as I said I have been enfemme 24/7 for almost 19 months. But starting last September I have engaged in same sex activities usually, at the beginning, with another CD'er, with whom I " went all the way ", a number of times. In the last three - four weeks my sexual aggressiveness has included my neighbor, who is a 40 - something divorced man. In that time I have had sex with him on an average 0f four ( 4 ) times a week, and to be honest I have engaged in " cyber sex " very often during ( and before ) this affair started. So to end it, if the right, man,CD'er, T- Girl or GG would come along I would go as far as I can. If my wife were still alive I doubt that I would be doing any of these things. & From Trina - Out at Last