I have read a lot of threads on passing and I just wanted to throw this out. I have had a fantasy that some day passing will not matter. I know most of us want to pass including me, but would'nt it be wonderful if we did not have to worry so much about passing? Not having to even think about being read but just being me. I think it would be great to think of a day when we could just be pretty and feminine without having to worry about passing. A time when this world will not care about us wearing dresses and all the female accoutrements. Some times I wish that everyone could know that I am just a person who loves to wear dresses and such.
Does this sound crazy? I really would love not to think so much about passing and being taken for a woman but just a common every day CD. A time when all the cloak and dagger stuff that accompany our life style just does not exist anymore. A time when we won't have to be surreptious and clandestine about the things we love. When we don't have to pass, which is really a form of deception.
A day when we will have dresses and high heels and nylons that are openly made for us in regular stores. Where dresses can be designed for us taking us into consideration where maybe there is no need for breast forms but sexy, never the less, because they are designed for a man who likes to dress sexy. Just dreaming out loud. Some thing like feminine men's clothing. Where 4" stilleto heels will be sold in my size and I won't have to add two sizes to get the right size for me.
If that day never comes I will continue to live my life but would'nt it be nice. I know there are many brave souls out there who live like this already but I am speaking about the majority of us who don't. Those who, like me, live in the hush hush shadows where only a few, if any, know about our cding.
I hope I can grow in my courage and maybe be part of the cure instead of the disease.
Thanks for letting me share.