What is the opinion of everyone that CD'ers tend to take the submissive role in a relationship. I read this somewhere and wanted to see if it has any merit?
What is the opinion of everyone that CD'ers tend to take the submissive role in a relationship. I read this somewhere and wanted to see if it has any merit?
Last edited by Peggy55; 02-11-2007 at 02:03 AM. Reason: typo
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We have a balanced relationship, sometimes he is leading, others I do, but maily we go together............. works for us
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
My femme personality is definitely submissive to women, but overall we have a pretty balanced relationship.
I am totally submisve. Would let my wife treat me as she wants. She could say, or do anything she wants to me. I am her belonging as I look at it. I love her so much that I have nothing but her. How she treats me is a show of love and every bruse would be a badge of honor, every kiss a show of love.
She is my everything and I am hers to do with as she pleases.
I'd love to play the submissive, but my SO will always wait for me to make the first move. Then, as they say... It's all fair.
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Yep !!!!, thats me submissive girl to a tee, just dont make me mad !!!!!
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My Tam is very submissive (don't tell her I told you), let's just say she likes my
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Missing my Libra babe Sherlyn, I hope she's rocking up there with the angels
Missing our Rianna, doesn't seem right, gone to early, hope she's partying with Sherlyn
I'm a sub all the way. I don't like beeing pushed around though. Then again I don't think anyone does.
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I'm only submissive when I'm dressed or underdressed......my wife has joked many times about getting me a french maids outfit to clean the house inn,not only would i do all the housework and love doing it I would also do anything she asked.I think my wife loves and needs me to be the boss sometimes so I give her that too.
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Brenda
Last edited by Brenda Love; 02-11-2007 at 08:20 PM.
"leave your panty drawer unlocked around me and your dancing with the devil"
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I don't think I'm submissive, I hope that I'm not dominant either. I just hope that as a couple we can be happy and achieve so much more than we ever dreamed we could alone.
Censorship reflects society's lack of confidence in itself. It is a hallmark of an authoritarian regime. ~Potter Stewart
I let my wife be the boss, till I say so. Then the real boss comes out. But we do share the responsability most of the time...BJ
Yes, I am rather subbie while dressed in one of my maid outfits!!!
A little. Not so much in the D/s kind of context, but I'm definitely not some kind of control freak.
I suppose at some point we are all submissive.
I for one am, how else do you think she got me to the alter
But seriously our relationship is built on trust, mutual respect and an understanding of each other. But I suppose the short answer is, occasionally yes.
Listen carefully to what is said, quite often you can hear what is not being said
The joy of correcting a mistake can bring pain to another
completely submissive!!! And I love it!
XOXO Tiffany
WRONG!!!!!!! I'm outgoing and semi-agressive, no matter how I'm dressed!!!
Love Karren
I prefer to be sub when we role play but in are normal routine we discuss everything
Peggy,
In my observation I have noticed that each CD in this forum is an individual with their own unique personality. I do not think that being a CD necessarily means that a person has a preference for being a submissive in an intimate relationship.
I do not believe that CDing can be linked to stereotypical behaviour.
As Trina I am very aggressive. & Trina - No Shrinking Violet
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Submissive? Not in this lifetime Hon, or any other for that matter.
YES, and NO. I tend to be submissive, but my GLady wants me to be all Male.
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Submissive here.
Dee
I am usually submissive unless I am in control and then I am the agressive; unless I am being submissive but only when I am not the aggressive. Somtime I am the observant and then I feel a little naughty LOL LOL LOL
Sub here. But it doesn't neccessarily always mean sexually. Heck, I've been to a few weddings where that phrase is actually part of the cermony; "Wives, submit to your husbands..."