No way would anyone think of me as being submissive, not in my male life, and not in my female form, never been one to take much guff from anyone, and never did know how to back down from a disagreement.
But then I really can't think of any women role models in my live that would make me think there is any reason to be, I grew up being taugh Men and women are equal, and the only thing that works is mutual agreement.
And i grew up before the womens lib movment
Tina B.
It's funny, but when I'm at work, I'm (fairly) assertive. I have to be it's a managerial skill that I have to employ from time to time to get the job done.
However, at home, and especially where my crossdressing is concerned, my wife is very much in charge. What can I say? ... I'm married to a bossy woman who likes her partner to be feminine and who thinks crossdressing is fun. I'll leave the rest you your imagination
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Love Karren
I don't like to be submissive nor do I like to domme. I like to be a girl and act like a girl with other gg's or tg's. I get this question all the time. I can roll play as either but it is not a turn on for me.
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I have to admit that I'm very submissive. I think the only thing better than wearing women's clothing is being tied up while wearing women's clothes.
The only time I can't be sub is when I am at work, I guess that is why
I like to be submissive. I have to be dominate at work, so love the submissive time.
Yes I turn into a submissive little thing when I dress...when Im not, Im all guy!
Bethany
Wedding Dresses...Perals...and Heels...Oh My!
I have to admit that I'm very submissive. I think the only thing better than wearing women's clothing is being tied up while wearing women's clothes.
Oh yes I have to agree...a roll of duct tape and a big fluffy bed and I could be in heaven...I love the struggle. I have rolls of bow ribbon (Pink, red, satin, sparkely...everything) I love to play with...who says you cant keep a good girl down obviously never spent a night with me.
Bethany
Wedding Dresses...Perals...and Heels...Oh My!
Mmmmm, Yes I am definitely submissive. Even more so when I am in fem mode.
bobbie
I am definitely submissive when dressed. Like many others, I am assertive in my career, but slipping into a pretty sexy outfit allows me to drop the facade and be myself.
I guesss I need to amend my entry here; I would consider myself sexually submissive to my SO when I'm dresssed. In all other aspects I remain my dominant, aggressive self, regardless of attire.
sorry to disagree but marriage is a 50 /50 deal dressed or not both have equal rights and equal responsibalitys. at least till she says otherwise.
I think I'm naturally submissive and it's a trait thats seperate from my CD'ing, I don't see it as a feminine trait it's just part of me
I am really surprised at the general flow of the responses. Tina is feminine, and in her mind that is anything BUT submissive.....
tina
I'm single, but totally submissive in just about everything I do and love it.
Lanore
I'm submissive when it comes to relationships. This probably makes it harder for me to find a girlfriend, if a prospective girlfriend is expecting me to initiate something with her and doesn't make a move on me!
Wow looks like the submissives have it by a long shot so far. By the way....When dressed I would be very submissive as well!
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Peggy
Sometimes my SO is submissive when dressed, but a lot of the time he is very dominant. We kind of feed off each others moods sexually so either way is good.
I'd have to agree I tend to be very dominating in relationships, but I am also psychotic and a sociopath
I seek to neither control others nor to let others control me. So, I am independent? As a child I had no control over so many decisions my parents and school authorities made that hurt me, I don't trust anyone easily.
If the yardstick is the S&M bondage world, I don't like giving up ultimate control and would rather tie or spank than be tied or spanked. But I don't enjoy being in a dom role either. I don't want the responsibility of you . . .
If the yardstick is henpecking or nagging, then I am neither dominant nor submissive. I won't put my wants ahead of my spouses without discussing it. But I expect the same in return. Like TinaB's comments, equality rules the day. I won't stay in a relationship where this isn't the rule.
If the yardstick is how I follow institutional rules, then I am passive aggressive. I don't draw attention to my disagreement with the rule, and I find a way to avoid or get around it and do what I want to do.
Hugs,
'lissa
Last edited by melissaK; 02-12-2007 at 10:53 AM.
i agree w/caryn. sometimes the decision is brit's and sometimes it's mine it just depends on the situation
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No definitive link. At least not at my house. Ok sometimes in erm certain cough-[SIZE=1]sexual[/SIZE]-cough situationsEnough said
I am submisive by nature and in all relationships rather it is Trish or Lance. Infact thats how I ended up finaly embracing Trish instead of hiding her and denying her. All my reltaionships are D/s.
Trish
Actually in case you couldn't tell from My previous posts and avatar photo I'm totally Dominant when dressed. Once I put on My makeup, teased hair, silks, satins and leathers I have a remarkable sensation of absolute power and I love to assert it over others.
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In social settings (parties, restaurants, any gathering) he's always been submissive (almost painfully shy). When it's just him, me and the kids - we're closer to 50/50 with him getting the tie breaking vote so he's a bit more dominant. I really haven't noticed any difference when he's dressed.
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