omg Outed a friend

[Helen H. Heels]

MJ,
Hi girl, try not to worry. The people at your church are caring enough to help you and your friend get over this.

Hugs back at you. Helen

[PaulaJaneThomas]

I don't understand your comment. Why does she live 'clearly' in a sick society? Or did you mean "Given the sick society WE live in..."

No, they live in a sick society. Whilst ours is imperfect it's immeasurably more civilised than their medaevil barbarism.

[Daphne Renee]

There is not much you can do now.. everyone screws up now and then.. I have done it many times over.. I havent ever outed anyone but I dont know anyone other than myself who isnt allready out. The church teaches forgivness and if your friend is truly a christian she will find a way to forgive you.
I think it was shakespere who said" the only way 2 people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead." While this isnt always true of course. It just goes to show keeping a secret for a long period of time is difficult. You will both move past this in time.. Perhaps it will be benefincial for both of you in the long run.
I hope things work out for you..

[MJ]

thank's to all that gave me positive input , sorry it seems this is not the kind of support that is welcome here

[Sara Kat]

Hey you should try to look on the bright side. Maybe it's just like taking a band-aid off...one motion, RIGHT OFF!

[stlmichelle]

I cannot count the times I have run my mouth just a little too much, only to put my foot in it. I know that you feel really bad about doing it, if she is a good friend, I am sure that she will find it in her heart to forgive you, I know that I would. My mother-in-law did it with malicious intent to me, and I still found it in my heart to forgive her. I wish you the best of luck with your friend, and I know that you did not mean to do that. As I like to say about all that goes wrong. You'll have that.

[Shelly Preston]

This thread has been closed at the thread starters request