I realize a lot the members on this website are married and are heterosexual, but as a CD (perhaps TS?), I would like to meet a man who appreciates me, who supports me, who isn't in it for the sex basically. I know of some adult websites such as Craigslist where there are men interested in CD that post, but I feel that's an unsafe way to meet a nice decent man since most people are in for a one-night stand. Is there somewhere I don't know that is more respectable? Thank you.
Well I'm no expert on that but I get a lot of male attention through my 360 site and 99% are NOT looking for a long tern relationship... Probably only chatted with one or two that were over the past 2 years.... Kind of nedle in a haystack kind of thing...
Maybe try ont of the big dating services... Like Harmony....
Karren
Maybe post in the gay section of Match.com? I've seen CDs there too...
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Just a thought!
GG's will sometimes go to a bar to meet men.
CD's can go to a CD bar to meet also. Do you have one near where you live?
Tamera
Well, I'm probably a bit cynical, but in my experience most guys who are into TGs are shady at best, or are usually dealing with a ton of their own issues; the least of which is their attraction to girls who aren't quite girls. My experiences with the guys out there has been a major contribution to my choosing to date women exclusively at this point.
"There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. "
- Anais Nin
Hi Honey, i was in the same boat 4 weeks ago. I am a T-girl and gay. I have been going to a gay bar for about a year I met a man who appreciates me, treats me like a woman and gives me everything i need. He even opens the doors for me when we go out. It is so much fun to be on man's arm, especially one who treats me for whom i am.
Kathrynn
There aren't a lot of us here who identify as gay men when in drab, so I thanks for reaching out.
I've been with my guy for 15 years (whew!), but the sad part is that he's not into me dressing (his logic that is he's attracted to MEN not crossdressers... which I have to respect).
If I had it to do all over again, I'd have been upfront with him about my crossdressing. If CDing is an important part of your life, I'd suggest trying to meet a guy who's specifically looking for a CD. Your best bet might be gay.com (there's a CD chat room that attracts a lot of men and CDs). But you might have to "suffer" through a bunch of guys who are only looking to do the nasty-nasty without getting to know the whole you first.
Good luck, hun!
Christa
I've decided to take a break from the girly stuff for awhile because it's been getting intense and way too easy for me, so I'm gonna do the guy thing for now. In the meantime, I'm looking to help out any of my local M T F friends by being their escorts or whatever and maybe be sort of a mentor. I'm approaching this from a friendship angle and this would not only help them build their confidence but myself as well as far as being a guy. Seems that I've been doing this feminine thing so long, I've gotten out of touch with my guy feelings somewhat. Should be interesting anyway.
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