my SO did not like me CDing at first but now, she's liking it... she's been buying me undies for a few months now. she also knows i love heels, but she does'nt want me fully dressed. lingerie and heels are the only ones that she likes. i want to be fully dressed and be entirely feminine!!! how can i desensitize without her freaking out? i love her and i know that she loves me. i just want to take my CDing further...