OK. I'm still married and we had the big discussion. The crossdressing is still an ongoing battle. She doesn't get it nver will and thinks the worst of it all.
All she can picture is me flitting around in a dress. But really who cares we are still together and the discussion was good for both of us.
We decided to take our relationship back to the beginning and start dating. Maybe it will help us.
My actions on the most part that surned the big fight didn't even involve dressing but that still came into play. I will change my ways for sure on the aspects that didn't involve dressing. I was wrong. The dressing issues I told her I didn't think I could stop.
She doesn't hate me for it but resents the fact that i didn't give her a chance to back out of the relationship if she wanted to. To late once the kids were about. She even said that if I had been honest and upfront in the beginning she may have even been supportive to an extent. My advice girls be honest early in the relationship cause it may be worth all the risks instead of being like me closing in on twenty years and still fighting with the cd issues.
She told that she even visited this site a few times and found it a just pat on the back CD club. "Like my new shoes?" Kinda thing. I told her it's what you make it. If you want depth here start a new thread and make it meaningful. I tried to get her to join the GG section and told her of some the great wives I have met. Some supportive and some not.
At the end of the day we are still together and even though she destroyed my very small stash(with my fave skirt) I still love her whole heartedly.
We just have barriers to cross especially in the talking department.
Anna Marie x[/SIZE]
I'm happy for you both Sparks. Baby steps hun, baby steps. 
