btmgrl6, sorry about your mom! That was not your fault, so get that outta your head. My scariest moment....probably when I was about 15. My best friend and I were in his basement, dressed in his moms slips whenhis dad came home. We did not here him until he started down the stairs. We hid, me behind the juke box in the corner and he jumped into a closet. His dad bitched him out later for "leaving the lights on in the basement".