Approximately 1 year ago I told my wife that I am a CD. It was prompted by her thinking I was having an affair based on little tracies left by my CDing.
Her initial reaction was of anger and confusion,which is quite understandable as many of you know.
Over the past several months she has asked many questions that I have answered as best as I could. She even purchased and read "My Husband Betty" and this prompted more questions. I read the book also and it raised many questions for me.
I also read many threads pertaining to spouses in this forum. Many recommended going slowly with one's spouse and I have followed this advice.
Recently, my wife took me to dinner for my birthday and during dinner she said she had seen pictures of me en femme[on our computor]. She said it was not at all what she expected and further said she would never have recognized me en femme.
As time has passed she has seemed to have come to understand that CDing is a part of me[for reasons unknown] and she has become quite accepting. Although, at the same dinner, she indicated that should she have known early in our relationship about it she would have ended the relationship without question.
She is constantly re-affirming her love for me and stating she knows how much I love her, which is very true.
She has not indicated a desire to see me dressed in person but it may come with more time although I don't find it essential it would be nice.
Joy
Originally Posted by Joy3
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