I am very desirous of going out as Roxi. I have never been out. My wife has known since before we were married...but recently has gotten more spiritual and is not very supportive. Before that we had shared many a romantic night when I was dressed. She is not unreasonable. You all know and are probably bored with me wanting to go out. I struggle with asking her to go out as Roxi...which I know will have a negative reaction...and I don't want to sneak around and do it, for many reasons.
How do I approach this...and how do I break the ice to ask her.