You have the right idea, Go with the wife in matching costumes. In 1988 or 89 my wife tried to talk me into going to a concert at the Arizona State Fair on Halloween night (KingdomCome was playing) as a girl, I was too scared she tried and tried and tried but I wouldn't budge. When we got there there were sooo many guys dressed as girls there that I would have fit right in. I have always regretted not doing it. Live life and have no regrets. Dixie