Originally Posted by
Stephenie S
Tess, I don't quite get your point. Even if only women eat yogurt, eating yogurt doesn't make you "feel" like a woman. It only makes you feel like someone who eats yogurt. We can only ever "feel" like ourselves. We can easily experience the "feeling" of eating yogurt, but I cannot see how eating yogurt can make us "feel" like that person who only eats yogurt.
When we do a brave act, we can then say, "Oh, I felt so BRAVE." When we comfort a child, or cry at an emotional movie, we can then say, "Oh, I felt so feminine". But we are still only feeling like ourselves being brave or feminine. It's still us. Women feel brave or feminine too, but there is no "feeling" of being a woman, any more than a "feeling" of being tall. Women are people. Women are human beings who feel and think like human beings. You are one too.
We can explore our femininity. We can experience many of the same things that women experience very easily. We can feel more or less feminine. But to "feel" like a woman? You already do. Women "feel" things just like you do.
It's just the same. That's all there is. Men feel things. Women feel things. We are all people. People feel things.
I guess what I am trying to do here is to de-mystify women. Many here seem to have a very unrealistic view of what it means to be a woman. Women are not some fantastic sub species. They are people. You are people. Women can bear children and suckle their young. This does make them unique. A man will never bear children or suckle their young. But women feel things just like men do. Men feel things just like women do.
We all have masculine and feminine aspects to our personalities. Some have MUCH more of one or the other. Does wearing women's clothes help you express more of your feminine traits? Good. Do it. (That is, after all, what this forum is all about) But you already "feel" as much a woman as you ever will. You can't feel like a woman. You can only feel like yourself expressing your femininity.
Again, IMHO
Stephie