After getting out, taking the big step in daylight --- not caring what people I never met and will never see again will say or think...
does this carry over to, if I will never see them again...can I ask them?
For example, you see a woman in the parking lot of a large mall, you wave her over and ask, 'do I pass as a woman?'
Or you intentionaly seek out a pack of teenaged girls to see what they say?
Anyone had the nerve to try this?