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    New Member rachel-h's Avatar
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    Is low sex drive a tranny trait

    I have to admit i suffer from this but is it just an unfortunate coincidence for me or is it a common problem for people who have a more female personna ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by rachel-h View Post
    I have to admit i suffer from this but is it just an unfortunate coincidence for me or is it a common problem for people who have a more female personna ?
    I find my sex drive drops a bit when dressed. Having said that, I'd always prefer to be a real woman anyway.

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    Erm.... No, I'm highly motivated
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    not for me

    I find that I still get charged up and feel turned on when I dress more so than when I don't. It really depends on what else is happining in my life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rachel-h View Post
    I have to admit i suffer from this but is it just an unfortunate coincidence for me or is it a common problem for people who have a more female personna ?
    I don't think so. Sex drive is unique to the individual. Speaking from personal experience and from knowing other women I'd have to disagree that simply being feminine has anything to do with it. As with anything in life, your mileage may vary.
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    No matter how I'm dressed, I'm "highly-charged" as it were.

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    When in fem I find females don't interest me sexually, but my female love interest drives me wild when I'm dressed....so I guess my answer is yes and no.

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    For Me, absolutly not----I'm very highly sexed
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    absolutly not. I have a pretty high sex drive when I am dressed.

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    What was sex again?? Its either been too long or I've got Altzhiemers... Just can't remember which!!



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    Nope.
    Though I did find that at times when I was particularly emotionally upset with my girlfriend that I had very little desire to be intimate with her. Apparently that is a particularly female thing and was a sign of my feminine side expressing itself according to the psychologist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    What was sex again?? Its either been too long or I've got Altzhiemers... Just can't remember which!!



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    That's so sad Karen.What else can i say girl. Justabit

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    my experience

    find that i feel very sexual and sexy when dressed and there fore if i can recall sex was out of site. now libido is lower i think as a male. but then i guess that could be scarie to think that i have to be enfemme to be thrilled.

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    It all depends

    and I realize that this not much of an answer but, and I will leave it at that

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    Not for me.

    Of course, I don't consider myself a "tranny". I think of myself as a crossdresser. A HIGHLY sexed crossdresser. Bi-sexual fantasies and keep the farm animals out of sight!
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    Quote Originally Posted by rachel-h View Post
    unfortunate
    I've never considered it unfortunate (though some gg friends have thought so ) Indeed, it's one of my Trans blessings to not be distracted by sex as much as other people.
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    I think there's a difference in the sex drive of TS people and cross-dressers that don't identify as TS. My libido hasn't been very high for quite a few years, sometimes, the only thing that would get me going was a bit of bondage thrown into the mix. Now I have no sex drive at all, but HRT can do that to you. Of course, that's just my own experience, everybody's different.
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    Supercharged at all times

    In fact, I think dressing has increased my sex drive, though I've always been very sexual.

    Quote Originally Posted by Shadeauxmarie View Post
    ..... and keep the farm animals out of sight!
    Now that's an interesting statement!
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    Is it possible to turn yourself 'on" while dressed? I say at first but after time it really dies down. I'm basically at the point where I dress for dressing sake, to become a woman.
    Bored? Try wearing a pretty dress. It's fun.

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    Nope, my sex drive is as high as it has ever been. X-dressing doesn't alter it at all...

    One change though, when I was younger, x-dressing was very much part of my sex drive. Now X-dressing is more a way of life.

    But I can get sexualy turned on when I'm "en femme".



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    thanks for the replies,the reason i asked is that things have reached a bit of a crisis at home, my wife feels that dressing does it for me more than she does and that i am not interested in her.
    That is not the case but i admit i have a low sex drive and so dressing is often more numerous than time spent with her so to speak. It is stressing her out she would be fine if i devoted more time to her but now she thinks I am doing it just to keep things sweet.
    Its a bit of a no win situation and im not sure how to resolve it
    thanks Rachel

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    Lol no problem for me xx Felix
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