Hello everyone,
Well last night I got busted by my wife. She was out scrapbooking and I swear she said it was an all-nighter and all day today (Saturday). Anyways I got dressed about 11 PM after I got my son too bed. I was feeling really pretty and enjoying my time. I was sitting at my coumputer at about 2 AM and I looked up and there she was. She saw that I had my webcam set up too. She has knowen about Jodi for over a year now, but she had never seen me dressed. The s*** hit the fan. Her frist reaction was get out of "HER" house. I said sure and was changing my cloths. She took my things again, she wanted to know where the rest is as I only had a few things in the house. After a while we sat down and started talking. She want to know all the same things she wanted to know lover a year ago. Why do I dress? I told her again it is something I have done since I was around 10 or 11 and that it makes me feel good to get dressed. She want to try and understand why I started. I told it it was something that I did years ago and it felt good so I keep doing it. She said it had to be something that trigered it, I told her I don't remember what it was if anything. She didn't belive me. She asked me what made me dress last night. I told here I though I had a chance to feel good about myself. She asked who I was chatting and caming with. I told her other cd's and that was the truth. She asked what we were talking about, I told her normal girl things, cloths how nice we looked stuff like that. She wanted to know if it is about sex, I told her no it is not a sexual thing for me. We talked about how we have growen apart over the years. How we have went our owen ways and do oyur own things. How she wishes that we could do things together. I told her how I have felt that she has pushed me away from her over the years. How she has taked advanatage of me over the yeras. We have a handcapped son and I stay home to take care of him while she goes out to do her things. Then after her Mom moved in with us 3 years ago, she put her care on me too so she could still do her things. I told her that I don't mind taking care of them. I told her I know she needs time away from them both as it is a big job to take care of them all the time, and that I want her to be happy and be able to do here things and get away from her everyday problems. After an hour I though our talk was going good, that all of a sudden it all changed. She went off on me again how I was full of it. She told me she thinks I am doing it just to hurt her, to rebel against her and that I have allways bebeled against her in everthign I have done in the past 32 years of marrage. She told me that I can stop anytime I want, and that I have to control this and not do it anymore. She told me she is tired of me being an enbearrasment to her. She said that the only reason I let her go out is so I can dress. I told her that is not true, and that I want her to be happy. She then stormed off to the bedroom. After a while I decided to go to bed too. I got in bed and she turned the TV on very load, turned the light on, told me to get out of her bed I wasn't welcome there. After a while I gave up and went to sleep on the couch. Today when she got up she asked if I had taken care of our son, I said yes. She said she was going back to scrapbooking, and see you later. My stuff is still sitting on the floor in the bedroom. I don't know what to do with it I want to put it away, but I don't think she wants me to. I know it well make her all upset again if I don't put it away but I also know she will get upset if I don't. I am going to put it away and see what happens. She is suppose to go out again tonight too, but I don't know if she will. I will have to see where this all goes and keep you all informed as to how it goes.