I dont know if i can pick one over the other and ill tell yoall what i mean by that. i injoy being a guy but is that becuz thats all ive ever known? again dont know. i do know this ive been cding more in the last 10 years than i have in the 30 years before that and definatly more after i started looking at this sight and all the kindrid sprits within. so i guess what im saying is ask again in about a year (and im shure sumbody will) maybe i can give a better vote one way or the other...cp...