Hey Girls-
Okay my turn to need advice. I came out about my cross dressing to all of my friends, but not my family. I have been going to parties at my friends house in my cute low cut jeans and heels with various tops, but no breasts, makeup, or anything else, for the last month or so. So this morning before I get to work I get a call from my Mom. She asks me to come by her house after work so that we can talk. All the alarm bells start going off in my head. Now you don't know my Mom, but when she thinks somethings up she'll try to weasel the information out of you, but she will never ask you to come over and talk directly. She'll say things like, "Come over for dinner", or "Let's go (boy) clothes shopping" and then she'll try to figure out whats going on during casual conversation. But, when she knows somethings up, as in she has information from other various sources then she does ask to talk to you directly. So She knows I have been wearing girls clothes. She could of found out from some other people at the party as some of the usuals are the same age or go to school with my Sister. Anyway, alarm bells are going off and she asks the question. "Are you going to parties dressed as a girl?" I said no of course not. Which is true I haven't been going to parties dressed as a girl, just dressed in more feminine clothing. So we hung up with me agreeing to come talk after work. I am terrified. My mother is was raised Roman Catholic and barely accepts my gay uncles as anything other than people with a disgusting fetish. Even though I know that crossdressing and sexual preference aren't the same thing, doesn't mean she'll see it that way. I have no idea how this will go down, but I am mortified at the thought of this conversation. Telling my friends is easy, because they all know me and they see me not the clothes or any preconceptions they may have about crossdressing. My Mother knows me as well and I know she loves me as I do her. However, I don't think she'll be able to accept this and I'm afraid it will ruin our relationship. The harder part is I work for my Dad at a company with about 100 employees. None of them know. So if I tell her I am essentially telling my entire company, and I have to work with my Dad. I don't know what to do. I am sorry if I am ranting, but my hands are shaking I am so nervous.