Well another girl besides my sig other now knows of my desires. this was by accident over a couple drinks one night. She was wearing a cure pair of stiletto heels and was complaing that her feet were bothering her since they were. I teased her a little and she responded "you should try walking in these things". I came right out and said oh I do it quite often. She paused a moment and sort of playfully smiled and asked what I meant. In seconds I blurted out my secret and don't even remember doing it. she was ecstatic!!! we spent the rest of the night talking about shoes and everything girly. Now she wants to get together for hair , makeup and dressing fun. Thankfully my SO is cool with her and is happy there is someone else I can share that with as well.
Sometimes things do work out =)
