I am so embarrased right now. i'm in the phone with my fiancee and she's asking me all these questions about something that happened when i was with a man (that one delicious time!) and i know she loves me no matter what, but it's still embarassing to tell her. why is that? i mean, even as i'm telling her all this, she's reaffirming ehr love for me and telling me that it's okay. she's taking it very well, but for some reason, i still feel shamed beyond belief. For all of you that came out to your wives and girlfriends, is this normal? the shame and embarrasment?