I would miss my female side if it was not there
The best thing I can do is enjoy it
I would miss my female side if it was not there
The best thing I can do is enjoy it
What I mean is I have seen myself when I wasn't allowing myself, or wasn't being allowed in the case of my second wife, to be ME. I was not allowed to let Kandis out EVER. I did not like the person I became, nor did my second wife, hence she is an ex-wife.
Kandis
Someone once told me "Put on Your big girl panties and deal with it". If they only knew, I WAS ALREADY WEARING THEM.
I wear the bras and panties so my wife doesn't have to.
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For me, Becky has a spectrum of just how girly I want to dress: sometimes in a business suit (straight knee-length skirt, tan tights, heels etc); others (like now!) the shortest mini skirt, lacy skimpy undies, bright nail polish etc etc - and everything in between. I don't know what drives Becky's desire to dress in a particular way one day from another - I just know what she wants. Sometimes I want to feel a real girly girl, others as a demur woman. Either way it's great......
Becky
xxx
I feel like a women.
janielatb: I'm in love with the person inside me.
I've always known that I had a strong feminine side, but I denied my inner girl for a very long time. Now she has begun to come out strong. I feel a lot of relief and excitement, but also some fear. As you probably can tell, I'm quite new at this and haven't even begun to find my way. But so many of you look so marvelous that I am most anxious to see where I go.
Sara,
It can goto wonderful places. Just gradualy build until you are happy where you are and then just accept yourself.
Sarah
Originally Posted by Joy Carter
[SIZE="5"]Don't turn down the heat, life is more fun at a boil than a simmer.[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Life Begins When You Stop Worrying What Other People Think[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Walk TALL SMILE and be CONFIDENT all will be OK[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]It's Brave to be Different, Be Brave Too, Accept Me for Who I am ![/SIZE]
I love being Mitch. All I think about is being Mitch when I'm not Mitch. She's a beautiful person and I look forward to more adventures with her. If she went I'd be devastated,
Mitch
I have read so many posts saying that as men we can not feel what a woman feels totally, and i think that we can, maybe not exactly what any one woman feels, but every GG feels there sense of "woman" differently, as do CD's feel it our own special way. Regardless, what we feel is real, because we are feeling it!! Enjoy it, love it, it is real, There is nothing wrong with feeling real emotionsi see so many GG accessing there maleness all the time when they need to. Emotion has no gender limits to it, and i love this rule of life, and i enjoy totally being able to feel these things, but it is hard to not let them sweep you away.
I love the psychological and physical thrill and feeling of being dressed, I do so feel feminine.
Sweet Tina, what are acceptance, concerns, conditions, problems if any in France in being a CD?
for my self i have stated that i had a wife for eight years... she walked out on me about two and an half years ago... my cross dressing was just a small issue with it. dirning those two and a half years, i went into a shell. all my fem things went into boxes, dwars, and you name it. i even took time off the fourms...
well, i'm back if that is any clue to where i now stand. i have always been in a dress... (my mother used them to get me to stop wineing like a girl all the time. cheers mom) so for me it's just a part of who i am, always had been and awalys will be... shure i have been outed and went out dressed and had gf's who would not understnad.... but all that matters in my life know about it and could care less about it as long as i do not do not show up on there door steep derssed.
in short, i love it and nothong can stop me now.... here's to ya babe. i hope that you find what your looking for, and i do not harbor hard feelings for you. just do me a favor and find what your looking for.
if you want it, all you have to do is reach for it.
I have never regretted any of my 'girlyness'.I think it's one of the best parts of who i am.I love exploring it to the fullest,and i'm sure it will be with me always.
I LOVE feeling girly. It feels so natural...
I wouldn't trade it for anything. In fact, I really wish I get to do it more often and did more while being dressed. Like going out...socializing with other girls and boys....
your not alone in this... manny of us have these feelings of guilt and then put all of our things in a box and hide them away or even purge it just to go and replace it latter... it gets easyer.. jsut let it unfold on it's own and accecpt where it's taking you.
yes yes, i understand how you feel the guy thinking of being her... and none of the love in return. i understand where you are comming from on this. all i can say other than that is that i think your now ready for what ever may be in store for you. just remember to cheeck the speed limit every now and then.
if you want it, all you have to do is reach for it.
Being 'girly' seems so natural. After trying for years to deny my girlieness, as shown by my androgynous body, I've come to accept it and understand it. In response to several comments that we cannot feel as a GG would feel, I'm not so sure. I feel I am a woman, almost constantly. I know I will never experience birthing a child, having a menstrual period; yet, mentally, I feel I think like a woman.
And, having a soft body with feminine curves and dimensions helps make me feel so much a woman.
I won't even accept the phrase: "Girly men," since I think I am a "girly Girl."
I LOVE the girl, not the one within but the one out. When I was in, I was driving "him" nuts, although most would tell you he is a little crazy anyway. So i decided that I must come out. Made "him" quit chewing my nails (40 years), probably about the time i conciously came into this world. So no regrets for me, but many for my wife. She did not deserve this but nothing I can do to change it. Thank you lisa gg
Lora
All I want is a world somewhere, a place to wear pretty underwear
A dress, some makeup, hose and heels
OH wouldn't it be loverly
"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing"---Helen Keller
Nothing more wonderful than spending time enfemme, I must say. The Rock Band "The Who", wrote a song, Getting In Tune, I believe it was called please correct me if I am wrong.
It was all about getting in Tune. That is how I feel when I am enfemme very In Tune with a major part of who I am.
Hugs
Lovely Rita
The journey is about learning how to love and to do it with all our heart.
The Revolution moves forward!!!!!
aspiring to be "part of the cure and not the disease."
to quote Cold Play.
Becoming the person I was created to be
not the person you expect me to be
"Girls Just Want to Have FUN!"
You don't need an excuse to Love just an opportunity!
i guess the best way to describe it is that i feel
alive and very natural.it is such a big part of me.
karen.
"I feel mighty real"
i have been dressing all my llfe. i have always known i was a girl even from a very early age. i love my femininity and express it when ever i can. I so adore being that wonderful woman who lives within me.she makes me who i am.
I agree. Its good to have womanly side of us come out sometimes.
I'm Lily! Even when I now play at being Charlie at work.
Comfortable in my own skin.
"Never underestimate the power of human stupidity, and never cease to be amazed by it!" Lazarus Long
62? You win! I'm only the 2nd longest abstainer in this forum! Congratulations on discovering a new side of yourself.
My enthusiasm waxes and wanes. This may have to do with the lowering of hormone levels due to aging, or it may be just that we get physically tired more easily as we get older and don't always have the energy to pump into our sensual selves.
Guilt, however, is never necessary. Maybe that type of guilt is a manifestation of simple sexism. If we subconsciously assume that female=weak and male=strong, then doing feminine things is (ominous drum roll, please) a sign of weakness.
If we all really believed that women were stronger and more admirable than men, why would we hesitate to crossdress? It would be a way of owning and showing off our STRENGTH.
Remember: Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, and she did it backwards in high heels.
***Jenna***
I "resemble" that statement!!! It IS who I am!!! Since I first began dressing at a very early age, it has been a part of me from my earliest of memories!!! There were "down times" when I was conflicted. Glorious was they day that I was able to shed the shackles of guilt and accept who and what I am!!!
Often (more often than not, if not practically all the time) I'm Sheri whether dressed or not. It is euphoric, to say the least!!! (Of course, let me add, that I'm always dressed to some degree -- panties, sneakers, jeans, shorts, etc. that I wear every day are women's. When I say "whether dressed or not," I mean dressed the whole way.)
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