I am not a person who participates in the activities which is the central topic of these forums. I’m not judgmental of those who do either. I do have a lifetime friend who is a “closet cross-dresser”. We found out about it by accident one day when he left his computer on and it had some pictures of him on a website. According to his profile, he has been doing this since childhood (35 years). He has met with others of like tastes and participated in some fun (erotic) activities with others of like mind. It doesn’t really bother me. It must be sensitive to him or he would have not been so secretive about it all his life.
Question 1: Should I tell him that I know? Or just act like I always have, believing he is just one of the guys?
Question 2: Is this an acquired fetish or one that came with birth?
I just do not want my friend to feel like a hypocrite around me.