I have read on this forum numerous times that dressing up does not cause sexual arousal for many. And many psyclologist/psychiatrists (?) have documented that, as well. I have always felt that I am in that group, myself. I can be dressed for hours, days even, and never become aroused because of dressing.
However. I have come to realize that I can no longer get aroused without dressing up. The old "me Tarzan, you Jane" thing just doesn't do anything for me at all. Unless I can fantasize that I am Jane, that is. Then it is great. Anyone else out there in this same boat?