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    For those of you who likes to be dominated!

    I would love to get some ideas for those of you out there that likes to be dominated? What turns you on eg; humiliation(give examples), tied-up, spank, candle wax,etc... I would love to hear ideas? Fantasies! EVERYTHING is welcome, very open minded here. NOTHING will gross me out. I've just been reading,studying about being a dominatrix and I'd like to hear from the ones that are into this or curious about it. Please PM me as it may offend others. Thanks
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    I think for me anything that does not involve pain I dont do that, I dont mind a little bondage but my wife really does not to be honest she dont like a lot

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    Quote Originally Posted by wifeofsissy GG View Post
    I would love to get some ideas for those of you out there that likes to be dominated? What turns you on eg;humiliation(give examples), tied-up, spank, candle wax,etc... I would love to hear ideas?
    Hmmm, it seems to me that this topic is not an appropriate one for public discussion here. My suggestion would be that anyone interested in answering wifeofsissy GG, do so via PM.
    Last edited by Shelly_P; 07-31-2007 at 01:26 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tess-leigh View Post
    Hmmm, it seems to me that this topic is not an appropriate one for public discussion here. My suggestion would be that anyone interested in answering wifeofsissy GG, do so via PM.

    Give over and grow up "!!!!!!

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    Whish I could PM to you. Think we would have a lot to talk about

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    i like being captured dressed as a superhero (tights,leotard,gloves...etc)
    similar to the way adam west would be captured as batman. the kinky villian would knock batman out (usually with sleeping gas) and he and robin would be captured... helpless in their tights. it sends chills down my spine

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    love to get slaped

    a good slap in the face

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    I was spanked, recently. More of a turn on than I would have thought. Oh yes, go here wifeofsissy, you will see the light ....


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    Gosh, I could write a book on this one. Fortunately, some good ones have already been written. Go to Elise Sutton's web site.

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    When I am in femme mode I am very very submissive and passive. I love being tied up and a good spanking is also good, especially if I have been a bad girl. I also love it when a man verbally feminizes and humiliates me even when it is in public.

    kisses
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    Well since you asked....

    I would want to be totally controlled. I would be with a totally dominant man who would tell me what to to do. He would treat me like an object and use me to get off. He would call me every name in the book. When I'd tell him I couldn't take anymore he would tell me to shut up and would force me till he was done with me. He'd rip open my blouse, hike my skirt over my hips, pull my hair and spank me hard.

    Is it warm in here or is it just me?

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    Get your SO to...

    Invite a man over. Make you watch him pleasure her, then, turn on you dressed.

    After that, get back to me

    Morgan

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    I enjoy being tied spread eagled to a bed while wearing a black bra, black panties, black OBG, black seamed stockings,Black 4" heels, blond wig, blindfold and duct tape gag.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SatinDoll00 View Post
    Invite a man over. Make you watch him pleasure her, then, turn on you dressed.
    I'm with you! Heaven...
    "If it feels good.. - Wear it"!

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    Simply ordered to dress in the prettiest maid uniform while my drab clothes are confiscated.

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    I have no interest what so ever in being submissive or humiliated.

    However I would love to be courted by a gentleman doing it with real class, not jumping on me... Then after a lot of gentle courting, if my feelings for him would be high enough, I would really like to abandon myself to his desires, but still with gentleness and care... I simply hate violence...


    Eugenie

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    Oh just put me in a wedding dress and love me to death..LOL

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    OK, I admit it. These posts r getting me worked up.

    Used to be really into bondage. Way before CDing came to me. Now, I love to combine those with the " forced feminisation" fantasie. First, I become Sherry. Put her in some heels, hose, very tite corset, bra and forms, and a tite black lycra workout suit. Of course with wig and special face, ( when possible). Then bad things happen to Sherry! She has been tied up in some incredibly uncomfortable positions. Occasionally for overnite. Handcuffs, blindfolds, gags, tied to the bedpost, hanging from the ceiling, forced to crawl around tied up animal like on the floor. Do I worry about my partner hurting or taking advantage of me? No way! I'm in the closet with my CDing AND my bondage activities! Guess I'm just the regular guy/girl next door! Thank you for letting me get that off my chest!
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    For me

    it's being told what to wear. Then having her apply my makeup and wig. She then gives me a list of chores to be completed around the house, to her approval. Any failures or shortcomings earn me "embarassment points". The more points, the more embarassing the task/deed. Recently, I had thought I had done a good job mopping the kitchen floor. To my surprise, my efforts earned me a trip to WalMart to get my ears pierced. I had to wear a pair of white Gloria Vanderbilt stretchy denim pants, a floral pair of panties underneath that were visible through the pants if you really looked. A white lace bra underneath a tight polo shirt. It showed bra straps. I also had to wear a pair of Dr Scholl's sandals with my toenails painted pink. She went with me and I had to ask for the piercing and for the pink crystal earrings.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellicd View Post
    it's being told what to wear. Then having her apply my makeup and wig. She then gives me a list of chores to be completed around the house, to her approval. Any failures or shortcomings earn me "embarassment points". The more points, the more embarassing the task/deed. Recently, I had thought I had done a good job mopping the kitchen floor. To my surprise, my efforts earned me a trip to WalMart to get my ears pierced. I had to wear a pair of white Gloria Vanderbilt stretchy denim pants, a floral pair of panties underneath that were visible through the pants if you really looked. A white lace bra underneath a tight polo shirt. It showed bra straps. I also had to wear a pair of Dr Scholl's sandals with my toenails painted pink. She went with me and I had to ask for the piercing and for the pink crystal earrings.

    Lucky you.

    Kandis (who was on the board of directors for HPEP (Houston People Exchanging Power for 4 years)
    Someone once told me "Put on Your big girl panties and deal with it". If they only knew, I WAS ALREADY WEARING THEM.

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    simple....i like to give her complete control over my sexual excitement. then i'll do anything she wants.

    humiliation? yes, when i'm so bold as to think that i'm anything but putty in her hands.

    chrissie

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    Nothing is better for me than to be suprised while in male mode with some sort of forced femininity. From time to time, we have been out shopping and walking past a salon which says "walk ins welcomed" and my wife will say "OK, you are now a "walk in", here is a picture of how I want your hair done, go in and have them do it." She has a lot of pictures of Doris Day. Embarassment and humiliation and abject obedience can make any morning an exciting morning.
    I'm a Wendy and I love it!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellicd View Post
    it's being told what to wear. Then having her apply my makeup and wig. She then gives me a list of chores to be completed around the house, to her approval. Any failures or shortcomings earn me "embarassment points". The more points, the more embarassing the task/deed. Recently, I had thought I had done a good job mopping the kitchen floor. To my surprise, my efforts earned me a trip to WalMart to get my ears pierced. I had to wear a pair of white Gloria Vanderbilt stretchy denim pants, a floral pair of panties underneath that were visible through the pants if you really looked. A white lace bra underneath a tight polo shirt. It showed bra straps. I also had to wear a pair of Dr Scholl's sandals with my toenails painted pink. She went with me and I had to ask for the piercing and for the pink crystal earrings.
    Love your other half! It sounds like you have a great relationship. Do you get to dominate him/her as well?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellicd View Post
    it's being told what to wear. Then having her apply my makeup and wig. She then gives me a list of chores to be completed around the house, to her approval. Any failures or shortcomings earn me "embarassment points". The more points, the more embarassing the task/deed. Recently, I had thought I had done a good job mopping the kitchen floor. To my surprise, my efforts earned me a trip to WalMart to get my ears pierced. I had to wear a pair of white Gloria Vanderbilt stretchy denim pants, a floral pair of panties underneath that were visible through the pants if you really looked. A white lace bra underneath a tight polo shirt. It showed bra straps. I also had to wear a pair of Dr Scholl's sandals with my toenails painted pink. She went with me and I had to ask for the piercing and for the pink crystal earrings.
    This is my biggest fantasy. A wife that will give you embaresment if you dont clean up, as long as she;s not outing which would be my condition.

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    I've been watching this thread for months and have seen it grow and grow--and while it's fun to talk about these kind of fantasies My personal observation is that for most of you they are just that---fantasies. I don't know what it is about the TG and BDSM communities that keeps them all in their closest but that is where they are the most comfortable.

    If I had a dollar for every TG who has made a date with Me to be dominated, or who has contacted Me online and gone on and on about how much they wanted it, how sexy I was etc etc blah blah blah and then either failed to show with no explanation or called with some type of half-assed excuse,(the dog ate my high heels", "my great aunt is sick" etc) I would be a very rich Lady.

    My advice to everybody who has posted here is stop imagining these things and start doing them. If in a relationship talk to your SO about them---I'm sure she or he would be willing to top you. And if not in a relationship then go to clubs, online etc and find a Domme who is attractive to you and then go for it. Just be sure not to waste her time with "fantasy" and always be sure to follow through if you make a date. Really girls actually doing it is much much more satisfying then just thinking or reading porn about it.
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