Your out! Your dressed (appropriately) Your with a friend or two and for Heaven's sake your in a bar with music! Now the bar can be a GLTB bar or a straight bar. A good looking stud walks up and asks you to dance. What do you do and use the various sceneiors: Gay Bar, Straight Bar, GLTB Bar. Some questions first, Is he gay and may or may not have "read you." He is straight and has not "read you. Or what if it is a lesbian who asks you to dance??