sex while dressed IS the way to go
dressing is never as good as sex
dressing up is at least as enjoyable as sex
no sex can compare to the satisfaction of dressing
dressing up makes me want to have sex
sex while dressed IS the way to go
Can I vote again? Probably not.
To me nothing compares to the excitement of dressing up!
There. I did it anyway.
Andrea,
I just saw you flickr pics. You are unbelieveable! I wish I looked so good!
Sex en femme is fantastic.
I read somewhere that for many, crossdressing takes on a sexual element in youth and this fades gradually with age. I'd definitely agree with that, but the thread shows there are plenty who don't find it sexual in the least.
Ironic that commonly sex is about getting your kit off, whereas (even now) I like the idea of putting my kit on...
I really like sex and don't have to be dressed because I am female in my mind. I find it more sensual and exciting when I am dressed but it's not necessary.
Bonnie
Dressing up, just like my bondage fantasies make mewant to havesex. Sometimes (but not always) I really do get turned on when I see myself all dolled up in a mirror. I don't know if that's a normal reaction but it doesn't happen often.
-Audrey
Crossdressing started in earnest for me because sex was too infrequent, and it is thrilling. My wife doen't want to wear "girly things" but I do! I would call her wardrobe masculine, mine is more feminine as I usually wear women's pull-on pants, nylons, panties, and a slip in "boy mode". With cooler weather coming, I'll wear a bra too.
Last edited by sfwarbonnet; 05-12-2008 at 03:29 PM.
when i was younger sex was at the top of the list now dressing is more fun when i'am out and about shopping
susie
How about dressing a little bit (like a little eye makeup and a silky chemise) and sex together? I do this with my wife on a regular basis
But dressing on it's own better than naked sex? ....not a cat in hells chance my friend!
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What a good question. I think the answers separate a transvestite from a transgendered person. I mean this as no put down. I am 60 and prior to starting anti androgens and estrogen this year, it was always about getting sexually aroused with the fetish aspect of lingerie,etc. That is not a bad thing. There is a true 'frisson' (Sp?) (i.e. thrill)as the French say that goes along with pretty undies, sheer hose,etc, but as I type this and am dressed 'all feminine' there is no sense of eroticism , just wearing what I feel is appropriate. I am not cute enough to go out in public, and I so respect the courage and effort that is required (makeup,etc) of others. Maybe one of these days. One thing about being older, it's easier to look like an older woman that some young cutie. So, at this point, while I can still get aroused,albeit different than before Rxs, I am in the dressing camp. hugs to all, helen
For me.. No comparison.. If you had my wife you would understand. Making Love with my wife takes me where nothing else can. CDing is a part of me and I enjoy it when I can. Sometimes when I dress I want sex even more, and yes, we do make Love sometimes when I am dressed. But my wife and the relationship we have is everything.
While sex dressed can be fun, I enjoy sex far more than dressed. I have sex 4-5 times per week but only 1 of those times will be dressed.
my thoughts are sometimes you dress just to feel good
then there are times you dress to get sex
I vote for sex while dressed up. Its the perfect compromise.
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Sex is best if you are en femme and your GG partner in OK to have sex with another girl. Otherwise turn yourself on when you are wearing's women's clothes, or perhaps being dressed does it...
Last edited by sfwarbonnet; 05-12-2008 at 03:31 PM.
I cant vote.... Dressng up and sex are both good, and sure... The one does not preclude the other... But I can't draw a comparrison either.
As close as I get is...
Dressing up and sex are only as good as you make them.
the two seem hand-in-hand more times than naught
Dressing is fun, sex is funner.
It takes a real man to wear a dress.
I voted
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How about "dressing up" for sex!?!?!?!
Sounds like fun for me
You forgot to put the best choice with your question!
Dressing up, going out clubbing! Picking up another hottie like self dressed enfemme. Bringing them home for the wildest sex while still dressed. I only lost my panties! *giggle*!
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Only my fantasy at this point! But I keep the faith!
Ciao baby!
xoxo
Renica