My 2 sons, 8 and 6, have seen me wear womens clothing before, nylons, tights, camosols etc. But no skirts or blouses, actually nothing that a youngster at those ages would construe to be "girl" clothes.
Well today, I put on a skirt I have been dying to wear for a long time. I picked it up at Value Village (btw, probably the best spot for any CD'er to shop on a budget) and came "out" of my room, as it were.
The look my 8 year old gave me was priceless. A look of confusion, with a grin as if to say " I knew you were wierd dad, but that takes the cake.".
Well I just sat down with them both and explained that Dad likes to dress like Mom and that I have been doing it since I was a very little boy. I am still their dad, and will always treat them as my sons. If they ever have a problem with my dressing as a woman, I emplored them to please let me know right away. Just because people do things differently does not mean that they are wierd or terrible people.
My biggest fear is that they will need therapy later in life because their dad is a CD'er. They are prety well minded kids, so I don't think its very likely. For some reason, it did not feel like weight had been lifted off my shoulders, nor was I nervous about it at all. It was not really liberating either, so I do not know what that means.
We will see what comes of it. Tomorrow we are going to Edmonton (5 hour drive) and due to a thread on this forum, I figured I will go dressed in a skirt and tank top. My SO doesn't have an issue with it, but it will be interesting to see what happens. Besides, a skirt will be much cooler than shorts or pants.
Thanks for listening.