Hello,
Where to start with the dilema I seem to face; I am a crossdresser/transgendered individual and have been for about thirty years, since I was eight to be exact. I have been in a relationship with the most undrestanding women for about 4 years. She supports me 100%. The thing that seems to be my biggest issue is going out in public, the stares and the whispering really bother the hell out of me. Im not sure if passing is the issue but just being accepted for who I am. i have seen different therapist on and off for many years and they all tell me the same thing, to accept your self for who you are but I find that a big problem when no one else seems to be able too. So I guess my question to all of you is how to do that regardless of everyone else. I dress in femme 95% of the time because that is what makes me feel good inside. the attire dont make the person, whats inside makes you who you are. This is a daily struggle for me. Everytime I want to leave the house I have to completely change who I am because im affraid of the general public and there closed minds. This is the 21st century for god sakes, not the 1930's. Just looking for some support maybe, Im not sure, Thanks in advance for any suggestions or advice, Love Lisa Mae....;o)