Set 2, Questions for crossdressers only

[smoothbikini]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?

No, that might take away the thrill of it, and it's too hard to do fulltime! women have my admiration!!!

2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?

A vast minority of the girls I have dated have understood and enjoyed that aspect of our relationship.

3. Why do you dress?

For the uniquely sensual and erotic way it makes me feel - nothing else comes close to giving me those sensations.

4. Do you feel special when you dress?

Very much so!

5. Is dressing very important to you? why?

Yes, very important. Again, the sensations and sexuality of experiencing the sensuality of the femininity I experience when dressing are a powerful "high" that I would not willing relinquish, I'm very comfortable in my sexuality, I'm harming no one, and I love the way the styles change every season!

[Satin_Lover_13]

Go figure I need to really think of the questions I created. he he

[LeeAnn_cd]

[SIZE="2"]Answer 1. I dress 80% of the time if I could yes I would dress fulltime. I am tired of having 2 wardrobes.

Answer 2. Yes she would understand she tries now to have me dress fulltime. Yes she does understand and she feels that they are valid reasons.

Answer 3. I dress for many reasons but the main reason is I have a very strong urge to explore my fem side I feel that need to be a female and dressing helps tame that side of me it lets me be more open and outgoing it gives me confidence. But also I like the way I look in womens clothes and the feel of womens clothes not trapped in a pair of pants 24 hours a day.

Answer 4. Yes I do feel special.

Answer 5. Yes dressing is important to me I rank it right up top with my health. [/SIZE]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
3. Why do you dress?
4. Do you feel special when you dress?
5. Is dressing very important to you? why?

Set 1 will be questions for GG's and set 3 will be open communication "both GG and crossdressers". Please have set 1 & 2 be answers only.

I really want to pick your brain here. If you read any of my poems I really dig deep in to your thoughts.

Enjoy !!!!!

[Chantelle CD]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
3. Why do you dress?
4. Do you feel special when you dress?
5. Is dressing very important to you? why?

Set 1 will be questions for GG's and set 3 will be open communication "both GG and crossdressers". Please have set 1 & 2 be answers only.

I really want to pick your brain here. If you read any of my poems I really dig deep in to your thoughts.

Enjoy !!!!!

#1

Nope i dont. I love to be one or the other, there is no in the middle for me at all, i am either a man, or a lady. And i love both.

#2

I think it would be hard to dress full time, and be with a woman to be honest with you, unless she is bi, or gay. My last relationship, she was ok with me dressing now and then, and helped me a lot, i go out with her at times now and are still friends, we didn't split cause of the dressing, but i am 100% sure if i wanted to be 24/7, she would have left for those reasons, a woman that wants to be with a man, doesnt want to be with a TG. I am sure there are some out there that have accepted it, being in love with the man, and turned into a 24/7 dresser, think one would have better luck being 24/7 and finding a gay relationship myself. This is my opinion mind you, not meant for cut and pasting cause someone doesn't agree, i said, because you asked

#3

Because i can!! Because i relate and can feel fully what a woman does, I believe and am liveing proof that anyone can feel pretty, regardless of gender, its a emotion that is not bound by gender at all, so is feeling feminine, and masculine. Feeling both when i want to opens me up to being more human, and not a one sided coin.

#4

No more special than the next pretty girl!! no more special than myself in guy mode, just different, i get energy and happyness either way.

#5

Sure it is important to me Because its a part of my expression that is very much alive, What i feel is REAL, so how can it not be important to me

[Kate Simmons]

1. No, I need my guy time.

2. My wife does not undrstand and never will.

3. Because I can and it is totally my choice.

4. Not really, kind of ordinary.

5. Yes, it is a spiritual connection to myself.

[CandyDarling]

[QUOTE=Silky_Pleasures;1024050]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
No - I enjoy my guy self very much. For me it is a secret and erotic pastime.

2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
I do have a wife and she would NOT be OK with my dressing full time. She knows and accepts - doesn't understand not interested in researching it and never wants to see me in drag.

3. Why do you dress?
HA !! I could have saved a million dollars on therapy if I knew the answer to that one.

4. Do you feel special when you dress?
Very special - feminine silky and sexy. Calming and erotic too.

5. Is dressing very important to you? why?
It is. It seems that ( since I was 5) it is a release of some kind. It will and does feed on itself though, i.e. the more I dress the more I want to dress. I fight for the balance.

[angelfire]

1. No, because I still value my masculinity.
2. I don't have a partner, although when I do find one, I hope they are understanding.
3. Because it feels right. I don't seem to have a choice, or any control over the situation.
4. I wouldn't say special, but different.
5. It is important because it is part of who I am.

[Lisa Golightly]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why? I do so... and it's because I'm a bit of a gal.
2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing? I don't have a partner... I'm impossible to live with
3. Why do you dress? Because I'm a bit of a gal.
4. Do you feel special when you dress? No.
5. Is dressing very important to you? why? Yes... as I'm a bit of a gal

[MarinaTwelve200]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
3. Why do you dress?
4. Do you feel special when you dress?
5. Is dressing very important to you? why?

Set 1 will be questions for GG's and set 3 will be open communication "both GG and crossdressers". Please have set 1 & 2 be answers only.

I really want to pick your brain here. If you read any of my poems I really dig deep in to your thoughts.

Enjoy !!!!!

1. No---CD is like an ocasional "fix' for me I only need so much--every now and then
2. I dont know how she will handel it. She seems open though---Only thing is I see CD as a private activity, not unlike Jacking off, in a sense---I certainly would NOT do THAT in front of her.
3. To get away from ME for a while--To become someone else and forget my OWn stresses and worries.
4. I feel :different and "detached".
5.Yes, I need to detach and get away from "myself" every now and then. CD is like a pressure valve that chills me out. :ike a drug, I GOTTA have it every now and then.

[Imogen_Mann]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
No... I do also enjoy male life.

2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
I do, she would understand, but It might cause some concern. Luckily I do not want to dress full time. My partner supports me and understands more than she knows.

3. Why do you dress?
Deep rooted need for and love of femmininity. Dressing helps me feel secure in myself, relaxed and happy at a core level.

4. Do you feel special when you dress?
Yes, Or esle I probably wouldnt do it.

5. Is dressing very important to you? why?
Yes... because it's a huge and important part of who I am. See answers above.

[sami1952]

1.If i didn't have to work i would dress full time but for right now i dress only on week ends.
2.i'm pretty sure she would understand.
3.& 4. yes i feel special, i feel like i'm more free with myself when i dress.
5.Yes it's very important foe me because it's something that i had felt inside me for a long time and when i dress i feel more relax with myself.

[DawnRodgers]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?
I would absolutely love to dress full time and live as a woman.
Why is the sky blue, water wet? When dressed I feel so alive and sexy. Love the feel and the textures against my body. Love polished, long fingernails, bright toenails, make-up, perfume and, of course, the clothing. Feels so good and so natural.


2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?
No and no. THere is little or no understanding at all.

3. Why do you dress?
I feel wonderful when dressed.


4. Do you feel special when you dress?
Not really special. Just attractive, comfortable and feminine. Happy.

5. Is dressing very important to you? why?
Yes. I finally feel like who I am, what I should be, what I want to be.

[Christen3042]

1. Do you want to dress fulltime? Why?

[SIZE="3"]Yes, but I also do stuff that's better done in jeans, work boots, and a sweatshirt.[/SIZE]

2. If you have a partner would they understand you dressing fulltime? Do they understand any of your dressing?

[SIZE="3"]No partner[/SIZE]

3. Why do you dress?

[SIZE="3"]I love the feeling I get when dolled up. While it's not entirely sexual, that's a big part of it.[/SIZE]

4. Do you feel special when you dress?

[SIZE="3"]Absolutely![/SIZE]

5. Is dressing very important to you? why?

[SIZE="3"]Absolutely! Being in drab doesn't feel like the 'real' me.[/SIZE]

[SusanMarie]

1. Yes...feels normal.
2. Have SO...very supportive and participates.
3. Same as 1...feels normal, feels right.
4. Not special..just normal...do really enjoy the clothes.
5. Yes, expression of who I am.

[Rita B]

Set 2, Questions for crossdressers only

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I really want to pick your brain here. If you read any of my poems I really dig deep in to your thoughts.

Here are my answers:

1. I would like to dress full-time because I think that life as woman is just that more wonderful for me, However, and it is a big however, as much as dressing as a woman gives me a great deal of pleasure, I think that it would be selfish of me if I did not consider other's peoples feelings, such as my wife's, my children, my grandchildren, my neighbors who know me and respect me as a man .

2. My partner would not understand me dressing as a woman full time although she is becoming more and more understanding of not only my wanting to dress as a woman but of wanting to be a woman as well, as impossible as it is for me.

3. In my heart of hearts, I am a woman, always have been and always will be. It's a gender thing. Unfortunately it was not meant for me to successfully undergo the change.

4. Oh absolutely. I feel more alive, more responsive, more creative, more caring, more emotional not to say feeling younger and better looking.

5. The many years that I spent in the closet and in denial were very unhappy ones for me. Many were the times that I prayed each night when I went to bed that God would end my life, I was so unhappy. At least now, my secret is out in the open as far as my partner is concerned and I know that I can act in a silly and feminine way if I want to without any repercussions.

Rita B

[MarinaTwelve200]

Based on these replies and my atypical answers above, I wonder if I am a crossdresser at all?

I suppose there IS a "classic" CD type as typified by the similar responses as above.

Yet I must classify myself as an "escapist" form of CD. Candydarling above seems to sort of fit my pattern too. I know there are other escapists on this site. But we seem to be much less "vocal", post wise, than the classic or fem side CDs that post the most. I would think that escapist would be just as numerous as we do just the opposite---CDing to run AWAY from our true selves rather than CD to go TO a true self.