I don't hate my male side either, it is actually quite useful at times.
Also happy to be a father and a husband, but, I do enjoy and need to let my femme side out at times. Keeping her bottled up too long really can make him bitchy.
As others have said, I do believe we (can) have the best of both worlds.
And finally..., someone has to take out the trash otherwise we'd all be living in indoor garbage dumps
Rachel Jean