I just read the thread by Lovely Rita "Acceptable/Unacceptable behavior for CDs". And it is such a complex issue I want to start my own thread to hold up your hypocracies to the brilliant light of day.
(I'll explain myself first.....I think I owe you an explanation after being so provocative. And I'm as bad as the rest of you so don't take it too personally.)
It seems to me that what causes the 'conflict' of views, is that there is a HUGE difference between self expression, and the wish to be accepted for expressing crossdressing tendancies.
(I'll repeat that.....in imitation of the best Self Help books.... )
"There is a HUGE difference between SELF EXPRESSION and the wish to be ACCEPTED for expressing crossdressing tendancies."
And so to my question...mainly aimed at all the people who answered "Live and let live etc etc".
Would you invite your CD friend to tea with your open minded family, as an example of a crossdresser if you knew they were going to turn up looking like a fetish transvestite *****?
Ahh see.....Maybe you aren't THAT Liberal after all.
For what it is worth my answer is..."Dress nice...don't embarrass me.....pretend you are a real woman as best you can because it is more acceptable to the public."